threesome!?

Question

my gf & I are talking bout having a threesome with another girl (one she likes and aproves) shes not bi but says thats a new thing and is curious to try... opinions? would it ruin us? etc

my gf & I are talking bout having a threesome with another girl (one she likes and aproves) shes not bi but says thats a new thing and is curious to try, we just had sex imagining it and dirty talking about it and she seemed turned on, i sure as hell was,specially cuz she told me the one time she kissed a girl out of curiosity before meeting me;
but now i have doubts... opinions? would it ruin us? etc

my gf & I are talking bout having a threesome with another girl (one she likes and aproves) shes not bi but says thats a new thing and is curious to try, we just had sex imagining it and dirty talking about it and she seemed turned on, i sure as hell was,specially cuz she told me the one time she kissed a girl out of curiosity before meeting me;
but now i have doubts... opinions? would it ruin us? etc going on two yrs now

does it mean shes not atracted to me anymore, cuz we really work in bed... really well

Answer 1

I've always wondered too...I am just too selfish though.
If I saw another woman with my man I would go CRAZY! I like to think about it, but I know I would never do it for this reason.

Answer 2

Threesomes are not good for relationships. Period. How can bringing someone else into such an intimate part of your relationship be good for it? If it's three single people, then it works out fine. But if 2 of the people are in a real relationship, only bad things will come from it. Jealousy always comes up in some way. If she is bi-curious, let her explore that alone and then *maybe* consider including you in someway later on.

There are sooo many exciting things to do sexually that don't involve risking your relationship for. Trust me, it is not worth the risk.

Answer 3

This could be a good thing for you guys, if done right. It can give you a new area in your sexual relationship. You should be glad that she wants to do it, so don't push the boundaries. Speaking of which, you guys need to set those before you play, otherwise, problems may arise. If it's a strong relationship, then there shouldn't be any problems. My bf is thoughtful and understanding when it comes to me bein with other girls and I think that is important. For me, I like that he goes off of my cues. For a girl trying things with another girl can be a difficult time with emotions and thoughts, so, be understanding. Also, you two should get to know the girl to make sure she won't try to get between you and that she's not crazy! Good luck...and have fun!:)

Answer 4

My own opinion is it's disgusting, and I would never feel the need to have one. I know all the other guys on here will say go for it, but it's because they think with what's between their legs and not with their mind.

Also, how is she not bi if she's going to have sexual relations with another girl which she approves of?? You're either gay or you're not.

Answer 5

It could definitely ruin you. People can really mess sex up! Taking it totally out of context for what it is intended for. It is not about being turned on. It is about intimacy, bonding, love. God created it that way and regardless of what you might think, it just does not work out any other way. If we distort it, we suffer.

Answer 6

I ran into this situation once. Ask yourself weather you would want a threesome with another guy, because if your serious with this girl that is where its headed.

Answer 7

Don't do it. I have heard so many horror stories. I think you would lose alot of intimacy with one another by bringing a third party into the relationship.

Answer 8

Not a good idea. Some things are better left in the fantasy realm.

Answer 9

well it certainly has the ability to ruin you. if being with girls is something she is into, i guess you will have to be concerned about her leaving you for one. it happens!

but if you are comfortable enough in your relationship to do it, then you can chance it i guess.

personally, i would never bring someone else into my relationship. ever. under any circumstances.

Answer 10

This is something you definitely should NOT try! You ask if it would "ruin us". Of course, it would ruin you and her, not to mention whoever the third person is. DON'T DO THIS!!!