I HATE BEING ANNOYING!!! please help!?

Question

Everyone at my school says I am annoying and whiney (and i dont even try to be its just that my voice gets squeky sometimes... : ( ) and i dont have many friends and even my friends call me annoying...No one likes me. :( I so sad! Any tips on being more... "cool" i owuld be very appreciative! ;)

Answer 1

screw them! thats what i say. i dont think you are annoying and that is just a rude thing to say to you. so what if your voice gets squeaky. some people would think that is cute. you know what ...for years people tried to slag me off cos i sound like i have a really young sounding voice. i even tried to talk not like a ten year old (hehe its doable but a strain) then one day i just went stuff it. i like my voice if other people dont they can bite me. anyways lots of people love my little voice now. and the ones that comment "ohh you sound so young" i just go..yeah i do. thats my voice. i like it. Dont worry about being cool. just be yourself. that is whats cool.... being yourself and not worrying what people think of you. and just remember that life is not like school ok? you will make more friends. nicer ones i hope. this time will pass you know and you will be older and happier and you will look back on all the people who were horrid to you and know that they were only horrid cos they were unhappy themselves. hang in there. you will be just fine. take care.

Answer 2

Since you are aware of the problem, you are well on your way to solving it. You can probably change your tone of voice if you pay attention to it and practice. Do you know when your voice gets squeaky? Is it related to what is going on or your emotional state? Sometimes you might just need to be quiet and listen to others rather than talk at all. Pay attention to other people's feelings and needs. Be thoughtful and kind to others. Remember that being a good listener is a most attractive characteristic. People enjoy talking to someone who pays attention. Do you know what you do that is annoying? If not, pay attention to what you are doing and how people react. When you see that your behavior is having a negative impact on those around you, that is a behavior you probably need to change. You can make some very major changes in how you interact with others and this will make it easier to make friends. Good luck!

Answer 3

sweetheart all you can do is be youself. if i met you maybe i could give some pointers but i did look at your profile questions. when you ask a qustion dont always say please help. no disrespect but you sound desperate and sounding desperate is sounding pathetic and sounding pathetic can sound ANNOYING if you continue to do it, see what im getting at. you have to be strong and love yourself. what other people think is not always correct. so dont let people get you down. there is friends out there for you. you just have to find them. until then just work on yourself. oh yeah try being an asshole to everybody somehow that works sometimes. its probably a change from the way you are usually and that will make people curious. good luck mami....

Answer 4

oh, i have a friend whose voice is also squeaky, let's call her Anna (not her real name) and i have another friend who tells her that she's really annoying, let's call her Angelica (not her real name too). And sometimes Angelica tells Anna not to talk anymore, but they're cool (with each other. ^_^ they're friends). It's true that Anna's voice can be somewhat annoying, and Angelica could tell this to her straight to her face, but Anna can take this criticism that's why they're cool. And Anna doesn't also seem bothered with all the criticisms thrown at her... Anna's also very whiney... Haha. She whines all the time; she complains about the smallest and the most useless things.. Haha. So anyway... Relating this to your situation...

You don't have to change yourself; you don't have to please everybody. I think what you need to learn is to accept yourself. I understand that your friends criticisms are bothering you but you should not change yourself for them if you can't do it. But I guess, you should lessen your whining 'coz it's also kinda bad to whine all the time (don't be like Anna. haha). Also, don't think that nobody likes you, I'm sure your family and your friends do, that's why they're telling you the stuff that they don't like about you. It's because they care. Just be nice and don't hurt other people and your fine, and cool! ^_^

Answer 5

Just relax a little bit more. Sometimes people can just get so frustrated with work and friends and what else goes at their school that they don't need any extra problems. That's not to say you need to keep your problems to yourself, just that you need to think about how others might respond to your problems. Finally, just listen to people as much as they have to you.

Answer 6

It's a pretty easy fix. Try saying what you want to say in half the words you usually would, and turn the volume down a couple notches.

Answer 7

Be yourself, eventually you'll find friends who love you for you. You may want to talk to a counselor if this worries you too much, they would listen and help you vent. Good Luck!

Answer 8

Just Be Yourself, Nothing else after that matters. You're better off being hated for who you are than being liked for who you're not.

Answer 9

don't complain alot. and if you don't like something just don't talk about it. unless it's important. but if someone puts their feet on the bed and you told them not to, don't freak out. just be like "hey, could u please move your feet cuz i don't want my bed to get dirty"

Answer 10

maybe its time to find some new friends!!