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I see him practically everyday, but I haven't talked to him yet. (I've only known him like a few weeks.) But anyway,
when I am close by, he acts like I don't exist, but when he is far away, he looks at me a lot. Actually, he looks at me a lot period, but if I catch him, he will look away. Does he not like me? or is he just being shy? I am too shy to go say something, but how can I get him to approach me?
Also, How can I even be sure that he like me? What are some other signs from a shy guy that doesn't know the girl?

2007-08-17 18:46:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

When a guy uses a lot of eye contact like that, it is usually his nonverbal way of trying to convey that he likes you. So go talk to him and get to know him better, and see if he is the kind of guy you would be interested in dating. God bless.

2007-08-17 18:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by wizball 4 · 1 0

Erm speaking from past experiences, shy guys always act as if you don't exist up close. You'll have to make the first move or else drop more hints. He will come around no matter how shy he is.

2007-08-18 01:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by DW 2 · 1 0

Shy Guys clues

These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.

2007-08-18 02:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by sofia l 2 · 2 0

You can spend years looking from afar--go over and see if he will go for coffee or lunch and talk about stuff you two like to do. If he won't ask--then you do it!! It is either yes or no--someone has to try. Keep it all fun and easy--it will be worth it. Relax, smile and good luck

2007-08-18 01:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1 0

If he looks at you a lot, he likes you. Period. Just make sure you're not imagining that he is looking at you. It's pretty simple really, if he looks at you a lot, like furtive glances, he likes you. If he stares at you, or checks you out, he just is (this is brutally honest) thinking about having sex with you. So good luck!

2007-08-18 01:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hes shy alrite but ur probably the same so if u hv the guts to tlk 2 him go and if u dnt then u suk (no offense)

2007-08-18 01:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff a high flying Hardy 4 · 1 0

Not trying to be rude, but why did you ask the same exact question within a minute of the last one?

2007-08-18 01:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

if he looks at u alot that means he likes you but if he is shy then he is scared to talk to you the only way to solve this is for you to talk to him and ask or you can make your friends ask or you can ask one of his friends

2007-08-18 01:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

awww, that is hella cute. he doesnt want you to know that he is looking at you. he probably does like you. if you two have got mutual friends meaning your his friends, and his friends are your friends. talk to one of his friends and tell him to introduce you to him. or just wait til he makes a move

2007-08-18 01:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sounds like he likes you!! you should go up to him and make small talk..say something like "hey i like your shirt" or if he has a sports team logo on, tell him nice team...anything pretty much will do, he already likes you!

2007-08-18 01:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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