and will have her daughter be her maid of honor. whats the difference? all my dad said was that i get priviledges. im only sixteen. so its not where im the maid but married
2007-08-17 17:33:53 · 7 answers · asked by Rebel Babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Your stepmom is confused. If you are not married, you are not a matron. You are a bridesmaid.
Privileges? This sounds like they are tricking you into feeling extra-special.
2007-08-17 17:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She probably wants to honor both of you and have you as special people in her wedding. However, the matron of honor is usually a title for a married woman, so it seems a little strange to have that as your title.
I would suggest to your stepmom to either have two maids of honor or a maid of honor and a guest of honor bridesmaid.
Or - make up your own title. Weddings should be unique and you and your stepmom can call yourself whatever best recognizes your role.
2007-08-18 00:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A Matron of Honor is someone who is married. If you are married then the title is appropriate, if you are not then you are a Maid of Honor.
2007-08-18 08:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The maid of honor is unmarried, the matron of honor is married. Unless you are married, you would be a maid of honor or a bridesmaid.
2007-08-18 00:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is only ONE position - a married woman would be a Matron of Honour, and a single woman would be a Maid of Honour.
2007-08-18 09:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like making up your own title. As matron is inappropriate, why not something like Stepdaughter Extraordinaire or Head Bridesmaid or something like that.
2007-08-18 01:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by indydst8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it why not
2007-08-18 00:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋