2007-08-17 16:48:27 · 49 answers · asked by caleb r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like why not
2007-08-17 16:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
First off, when I answer someone's question up here, I am always honest. So, I'll be honest with you as well:
Your statement, "I don't like fat people" is very immature.You should reword that because it really makes you look low. Now, I can understand if you just really don't see yourself with a heavy-set female. If that's not what you are attracted to, then that is just your personality and no one can hold that against you. BUT you have just said that you like this girl. Because you like her, her weight should not even be an issue. If she's nice and is a good person, she doesn't deserve to be turned away because she weighs more than someone else. That is stupid honey, so don't even be like that.
Also, you really need to be enlightened. People are never going to be all the same sizes. Just because someone is bigger, doesn't make them less of a person or lesser than the next person. You said yourself, that you like this girl. If you like her, then go out with HER not her body. Be smart honey.
2007-08-17 16:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by crazychill123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really going to bother you then do not get with her. There is nothing worse than trying to ignore something about a person because after a while it will make you hate that person for no real reason. If you really like this girl though you could always try to get her to lose weight by making it into a pseudo date. Tell her she should go running with you sometime or you guys should hit the gym together. Just don't flat out tell her she needs to hit the gym.
2007-08-17 16:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by manachains69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no you do not. Sure you say you like her, but do you really? If you truly liked her you would look beyond her weight at the person she is. By dating her and telling her she is fat you can ruin her self esteem and even help create an eating disorder than could damage her for life. My advice, is before you start pointing your finger at others, take a long look at yourself and see what needs to be fixed first. I would suggest starting with the ideas you have about how you perceive others. Look beyond the weight.
2007-08-17 16:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by omorris1978 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, this has nothing to do with fat.- You know, some people have limits, physically and metally. For example: I like men who have an education...and then one day, i'll fall for a witty tattoo artist, percer, car mechanic...etc etc- Im saying that when you see this girl, you don't see fat, you see something else.
So shut up, stop being stupid and superficial- if you like her, go out with her.
2007-08-17 16:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by SolarSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question when you said that you like this girl. If you like someone for who they are, not what they look like, should it matter ? Or are you worried about your friends? Is this your problem? You think that if you go out with a girl that you like, who just happens to be fat, that your friends will give you smack? If you answer yes,then you are not worthy of this girl any way.
2007-08-17 16:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by yankabilliechic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you don't like fat people you should probably not go out with her. Yet you are still attracted to her, and could be missing out on something great.
2007-08-17 16:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i hope that someday you don 't gain weight and get "fat".
many people in the world are overweight because they have physical and/or emotional problems. a person who isn't fat would never understand it.
i had surgery two years ago and gained a bit of weight... it has been devistating for me and i feel like everyone is staring.
the amout of FAT a person has on his or her body doesn't make them.
you can still be a BIG FAT JERK in a thin body!
think about it.
2007-08-17 16:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you like her go out with her if your going to hurt her feelings by the fact that shes fat leave her alone
2007-08-17 16:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go what with your heart tells u. Maybe if u hang with her a lot she may lose weight. I think u should because that's kinda races saying u don't like a type of person. So if she doesn't lose weight then she has a problem. help her. I think u should go out with her.
2007-08-17 16:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then you would not be ashamed of her. If you are that obsessed with appearance then maybe u shud try dating a bikini model...........unless you arent perfect like you make yourself sound.Basically, accept her or dont bother her at all because she will only hate you for hurting her feelings after you tell her that you cant go out with her becuz she isnt perfect.
2007-08-17 16:57:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋