I had a girl "chasing" me for months and I always avoided dating her. I hung out with her for the sex and I always turned her down whenever she hinted a relationship, but yet she kept persisting at a relationship. Then we took a trip to Cancun, with her roommate along. During the trip I slept with the roommate and she didn't mind that much (also, I think the roommate only slept with me because she knew that this girls wanted to date me and I kept saying no).
Then I was seeing another girl who tried to put a halt to the sex until we started dating, but when I said no for several times, she still slept with me.
How come girls like to be denied and still have sex with guys to are jerks to them,?
2007-08-17 16:18:49 · 16 answers · asked by Chucky Norris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for the answers.
Here are some of my observations:
1) I think these girls were desperate for attention, and since I gave them a bit of attention during sex, they imagined I might give them more attention outside of a sexual encounter. Truth be, I just wanted to **** them.
2)I made it extremely clear at the beginning that I would never date them (I told them face to face that I didn't want a relationship with them), so I'm curious to know WHY they wanted a relationship despite me telling them I didn't (I suspect they wanted the challenge of changing my mind. And I'm not being cocky on this detail).
3)These girls are normal looking. They have other guys chasing them, but they insisted on me.
4)I'm not that hot. I think I'm average. Tall, skinny, and aggressive, but not a muscular hunk. I do admit that I have power. I control two companies and I'm young (27), direct 36 employees, and drive a 2005 Jaguar.
Yet I consider myself average.
2007-08-17 17:12:41 · update #1
You deserve a star for that "crock" of a "story." It's Friday night, don't insult our intelligences.If you were "all" that you'd be out and about,not on here asking questions.
2007-08-17 16:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are asking the wrong question, but I will start with the one you asked.
Some women don't think that they deserve better treatment. Maybe they were abused as children, maybe they've got low self estem. Either way they hook up with someone that they think is great and convince themselves that the person will eventually see how great they are and want to be with only them.
The real question, Chucky, is why you want to lead a girl on when you know she feels with way. That's something wrong with you. There are a lot of girls out there that will throw you some sex without asking for a relationship. Why keep this girl around and keep leading her on and hurting her? Maybe there is a little work that you need to do on your self esteem so that you don't have to keep sad, delusional girls running after you.
You deserve better than that and so does she. If you were a total jerk, you would never have asked this question
2007-08-17 16:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by gavin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some females date jerks because of fact they're dressed cool, have extremely some money and a spectacular vehicle, or they're only rather solid looking and that woman is only appearing shallow. She's no longer searching for a character, or somebody deeper who rather cares and positively treats her actual. spectacular adult adult males i think of can do lots extra then shallow jerks can ever do. i'm a Gemini!
2016-10-10 11:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are attracted to "bad boys" because they seem more exciting... they are hard to tame, there is always an element of surprise (even if we don't like the surprise), some women think they can change them, other women think that because the man has THEM IN PARTICULAR that the guy will magically become a "good boy".
loads of reasons
i used to go for the bad boys myself.
now, i'm single and like it a lot.
take care.
2007-08-17 16:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women can use men just as well as you can use us!!! It's all a game and we find a way to get what we want just like the men do and there are many times--you'll love this--we're better than you with the game of being jerks!!!
2007-08-17 16:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like that, i tried dating a jerk once to see what it was like and i strongly disliked the experience. Nice guys can be really funny and easy to tlk to thats the kind of guys I think most girls will realize they like when they get more mature.
2007-08-17 16:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You ARE a jerk. Since leading girls on gets them out of being called "stupid", maybe you're kinda good looking (making them shallow), and you don't realize that it's YOU that's being taken advantage of....as in notches in the ol' bedpost. Thanks for renewing the belief in the magic of a relationship....I was wayyyy off.
2007-08-17 16:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by imrt70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I would judge all women because of this particular one. Not all of us are that low, or desperate. We have more self pride than that. I would say you're just unfortunate to have this girl you can't get rid of. But it is true that girls are attracted to jerks... because I know I'm one of them. i just wouldn't put myself into that situation. As for why, I cannot answer you question, soryr.
2007-08-17 16:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Cyndee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I think its rediculous personally. If a guys gonna be a jerk, than he can go use his hand for the next thirty years. No offense..but yah.. id kick you n be like. Uhm dont talk to me
haha. im horrible. =] but yeahh. thats just my thoughts
2007-08-17 16:26:39 · answer #9 · answered by nαømi-infinity.-™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has the characteristics of girls who just hit puberty... it's a very common practice for many girls in that age.
2007-08-17 16:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋