Hey, my ex an i are close friends we still are into each other. i didnt get to see him before he left for costa rica and he will be gone for a week with his dad. i left him a messege saying sorry i missed him before he left. then about four days later i left another saying that the thursday, after he comes back we should hang out and i missed him! should i call him again n leave a messege? or wait n see if he calls me when he gets bak? i always crowded him and i want him to chase me instead....
2007-08-17 15:05:28 · 10 answers · asked by Mindy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to back up some and let him do some chasing.
right now if you keep doing what doing he is going to get tried
of you calling him.
2007-08-17 15:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to chase you then stop calling him so much. And stop telling him how you miss him and want to see him. You seem very needy and clingy, men don't like that and men don't chase that type of woman because they are always available. Let him call you, be nonchalant and not always available, and don't jump every time he wants to see you. It's good to make a man work and make a man wait, you have to let him miss you.
2007-08-17 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by ctelly22 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Costa Rica! He is probably really busy and does not have time to check all his messages! Just be patient! When he comes back talk to him and hang out!
2007-08-17 22:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait... if he doesent call back just dont call again, hes on vacation he should get some time for himself.. talk to him when he comes home.
2007-08-17 22:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by Corrinne C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more messages, unless you just want to be used for sex.
calling a guy is ok, begging is not.
the only time a woman should beg a man is if she is a virgin when the elders come looking for a virgin to throw into the volcano.
2007-08-17 22:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that i would wait for him to call back otherwise its just going to be another girl stalking him or sum10..but i am sure he will defenitly reply after those sweet mesages!!
2007-08-17 22:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by ranihottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already left four messages.I would NOT leave anymore.If he wants to call you,he will.
2007-08-17 22:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need help. Thank God we are here.
Relax and let him come to you, or move on to another, better man.
2007-08-17 22:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you crowded him before then i'd wait for him to call you this time.
2007-08-17 22:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by bailey.bee=] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. For the THIRD TIME, just wait.
2007-08-19 17:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋