I'm going to a memorial service, and I don't know whether what's appropriate. I knew the deceased fairly well, but I know his father is my choir teacher, extremely well. What's appropriate dress?
2007-08-17 13:49:35 · 10 answers · asked by animalloverkt 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Dress with respect, and when in doubt, err on the side of conservative, and use subdued colors. A simple charcoal or gray outfit that is appropriate for church. No exposed arms or too-short skirts or too-high heels, and nothing casual like jeans or flip flops, and simple gold or silver jewelry. Soft pastel colors are okay for a shirt, but nothing flashy.
2007-08-17 15:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Parrot Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do *not* wear spaghetti straps. In general, showing your shoulders or a lot of leg will seem inappropriate. Sticking with a black color palate is a good idea, though. Look for a knee-length black dress with capped sleeves, or wear a little sweater over a conservative black dress. You might be uncomfortable in slacks since it's summer. If you opt for heels, make sure that they aren't something you could wear going out to a party or a bar.
2016-03-19 05:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I'm going to a memorial service, and I don't know whether what's appropriate. I knew the deceased fairly well, but I know his father is my choir teacher, extremely well. What's appropriate dress?
2015-08-16 15:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear black, navy, grey or something that looks subdued. Lately, I have noticed a lot of people going to funerals and memorial services wearing bright colors or clothes that expose a lot of skin. I think it looks inappropriate and could be upsetting to the family of the deceased. Don't wear anything that makes you look as if you are going to a party.
2007-08-17 14:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by bombastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sunday best" would be appropriate. A nice dress or skirt that isn't overly loud should be just fine. It's lovely that you are going to the service to support your teacher. It's very kind of you.
2007-08-17 18:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress like you would want people to dress to show respect to your memorial.
2007-08-17 14:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt, wear black (or a dark color), like you would to a funeral.
You don't say how old you are - it sounds like you're still in school. A dark skirt and white blouse would be fine.
2007-08-17 13:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you wear something that show respect for the deceased and for the family, I don't think it really matters. Usually something fairly conservative - not too wild, flashy or short.
2007-08-17 13:59:35 · answer #8 · answered by aja5505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress in clothing that is modest and not loud. i have always worn dark colors, skirts/dresses should be knee length or longer, blouses should be modest. if you chose to wear pants, they should be dressier, no jeans, etc.
dress to show respect.
2007-08-17 14:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by jaani113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as wearing your "Sunday best." No need to be formal, but, as a sign of respect, were nice clothes. No jeans, tank or tube tops, etc.
2007-08-17 13:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Vince M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋