Im depressed all the time. Because i want to be with my girlfriend. But we cant get married because its illegal Yes im a lesbian. I dont know what to do. She cant come live with me because shes in college. I need some advice.
2007-08-17 12:27:47 · 16 answers · asked by aeballin15 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
My recommendation is talking to your relocations and separations and ask them what you should do . excluding of telling them you are gay. I don't know how long you two have been together or how long you have served already. Just try sticking it through, you would rather have a honorable discharge than a dishonorable. Your girlfriend should understand, I mean on alot of job applications it asks if you have been dishonorable discharged. You can still be with your girlfriend, as long as you don't tell and no one has a right to ask you.
2007-08-17 13:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by airforcebabe696 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You should be able to complete your CCAF (Associates) degree within your initial tour. You don't have to wait until you make E-5 to take classes. It takes longer than 2 years to make E-5; more like 4 - 5 years. 2. You will have 100% tuition assistance while on active duty and GI bill when you get out. 3. There are plenty of jobs that translate into a good civilian career. Just having military experience goes a long way with many employers. 4. Ok, have fun, travel and do whatever it is that you like. Just remember that there are rules and regulations which you have to follow. 5. I was AD USAF for 22 years and I never saw any First Term Airman be affected by a reduction in force. 6. Not sure what this has to do with joining the Air Force. 7. The Air Force will help you mature, but I've seen kids that just refused to grow up; they didn't last long.
2016-04-02 02:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Military has a don’t ask don’t tell policy you have to tell them. Under federal law they have to investigate. During this they only question you supervisor and any persons you tell them that have knowledge of the fact. Once the commander finds that you statement was true you will be processed for separation. Just the fact that you will attempt a marriage will violate the policy
this is part of it you can click on the rest
(b) Policy.— A member of the armed forces shall be separated from the armed forces under regulations prescribed by the Secretary of Defense if one or more of the following findings is made and approved in accordance with procedures set forth in such regulations:
(1) That the member has engaged in, attempted to engage in, or solicited another to engage in a homosexual act or acts unless there are further findings, made and approved in accordance with procedures set forth in such regulations, that the member has demonstrated that—
(A) such conduct is a departure from the member’s usual and customary behavior;
(B) such conduct, under all the circumstances, is unlikely to recur;
(C) such conduct was not accomplished by use of force, coercion, or intimidation;
(D) under the particular circumstances of the case, the member’s continued presence in the armed forces is consistent with the interests of the armed forces in proper discipline, good order, and morale; and
(E) the member does not have a propensity or intent to engage in homosexual acts.
(2) That the member has stated that he or she is a homosexual or bisexual, or words to that effect, unless there is a further finding, made and approved in accordance with procedures set forth in the regulations, that the member has demonstrated that he or she is not a person who engages in, attempts to engage in, has a propensity to engage in, or intends to engage in homosexual acts.
(3) That the member has married or attempted to marry a person known to be of the same biological sex.
I agree with the two other post but I would much rather you separate than take the spot of a good soldier or Airman
2007-08-17 12:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by SSGAllan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. And I am getting sick of all these whinny people who want out early. SUCK IT UP!!! YOU signed the contract, nobody forced you to do it. I don't want to hear how your recruiter lied,or it isn't what I thought, or any of that crap. In the information age, you can get a pretty good idea what your getting into. These cry babies can sure use a computer to find out how to get OUT, but maybe use it before you go in and save us all a lot of time. You scumbags who want out early make me sick. And no, it has NOTHING to do with your sexual orientation. That is your business. But wanting out early after my tax money has been spent to train you, that is my business. Stop crying and honor your commitment like a real adult.
2007-08-17 12:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Marine till Death 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
if you want out early t about the only way ur gunna get a honarable dishcharge is if you get pregnant or injured otherwise if you dont care that much go do some coke or something and come up positive on a drug test
2007-08-17 13:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by dloc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple:
Sell your ethics and patriotism cheaply.
Unlike the vast majority of military men and women, you seem to have lost your spine.
In addition, you're selling yourself pretty cheaply.
Isn't this the same girlfriend that cheated on you? Do you read your own posts or make them up and then forget them?
2007-08-17 12:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by mckenziecalhoun 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Come out of the closet by telling your First Shirt.
2007-08-17 12:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by giggleblue 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make a pass at a female officer.
2007-08-17 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lavrenti Beria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smoke a FAT BLUNT maybe 2 then fail the drug test that will get out and then you can be as open as you want.
2007-08-17 13:25:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am going to make certain your CO knows you're a lesbian! Don't ask, don't tell!
2007-08-17 13:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋