I really have a problem with it. whenever i feel like someone is trying to approach, this weird feeling goes around my body. is like a worm on my back, yukiee!
hmmm....i dont know if this has anything to do with it. when i was young, i was hurt by someone emotionally.
i dont like people hurt me, physically and emotionally. i try my BEST to avoid any kind of hurt i may receive. yes i believe in God, and i know he protects me.
yet i still feel vulnerable. how can i appreciate male if i think like this?
P.S. this is a hard one. cuz i have high respect toward marriage. and yes i WANT to get marry
P.S. I tried to get over it. i prayed. i tried to view my past as a lesson. it wont work. the fear is in my brain. u can tell
2007-08-17 11:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow!! Don't feel bad about this subject, I have a similar feeling for females. I guest it's hard for me, because i can't fully understand the opposite sex and for some strange reason I always offend them and they jump at me as if I'm the most evil person in the world.
I've learn to allow the pain to come. I know God won't allow anything in my life that I can't handle or he always have and will send a friend to help me in tough times. (He would sometimes send a stranger)
God never said He will stop hard times and fears from coming, He said he will help us through them. So trust in Him and take the risk. He will help you along the way. Don't be afraid, always have a friend with you. Try double dating or something.
I hope I helped.
2007-08-17 11:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Narnian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand on the word of God. It is written that God has not given us the spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. It is also written that perfect love cast out all fear. Trust God to transform and renew your mind so that fear will have no place in you. Fear is of the devil. Pray and ask God to take the fear away and believe that he will do it and it will be done in Jesus name. Jesus can heal your heart and your mind and I pray that he does a quick work in you life and that you will never be the same in Jesus' name. Be Blessed!!
2007-08-17 18:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by lover of the lord 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though you might have that well known triad: rejection, fear of rejection, and self rejection. May I suggest a book by Noel and Phyl Gibson 'Excuse me Your Rejection is Showing'.
2007-08-25 14:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by cheir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably something you'll need to discuss in depth with someone, whether that be a therapist or religious counselor of some sort.
Best wishes, I feel for you!
2007-08-17 18:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will need to come to a place where you can forgive those people who have hurt you... it is the only way to be free from the bondage you are currently in...
my suggestion to you is to find someone who has come out of your situation and let them help you... i know people who have healed from this but you do not want to have to do it alone if you don't have to.
2007-08-17 18:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Andre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that way too. Males are creepy and icky which I know very well being a man myself. I cannot recommend them.
2007-08-17 18:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Forgiveness. And don't forget to forgive yourself, too...
Peace be with you.
2007-08-17 18:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Arf Bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you thought about therapy? it could be that your just not ready...how old are you?
2007-08-17 18:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Holly D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋