You see a lot of great girls with guys who seem broken and need fixed. It has always been my assumption that most women like a guy with something they can fix or control. And while we are at it, do any guys look for project girls? It is my assumption that guys do not follow that path as much.
2007-08-17 09:52:46 · 5 answers · asked by matthew c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's the mentality in some women that if the guy doesn't have problems, he'll never lean on you or talk to you about them and then ya just become arm candy and the quality girls don't want that. If you're not useful, you're not wanted. Personally, I don't have that mentality, but I agree with some of the gals- guys who have too much confidence are annoying.
2007-08-17 10:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I don't know. Sometimes we get attracted to the awkward guy or the problematic one because we want to see that guys have faults too and there's something about finding someone who is a truly good person but is still imperfect, it just works for a lot of girls.
2007-08-17 16:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by Accidental x Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mybe coz these guys are "project guys" and dont have all the baggage u cocky bastards have. i am willing to date a guy who needs a little work vs a man who thinks hes got it made.
2007-08-17 16:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by MoMo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well somtimes project guys are a bad idea because somtimes youll fix what you wanted to and then you get bored and move on
2007-08-17 16:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't fix anyone-- anymore than you can teach a pig to sing...
You can teach them new things-- if they are willing to learn.....
2007-08-17 17:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋