Should I take it as a sign that he doesn't really care about me? That I shouldn't waste my time trying to be his girlfriend anymore?
How does he know that somebody isn't going to attack me before I get in?
2007-08-17 09:33:53 · 52 answers · asked by Xena_fire 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's done this all summer. I just wasn't saying anything because I didn't want to seem like a nag.
2007-08-17 09:56:35 · update #1
Wow, that's just plain rude. He should, at the very least, wait to see that you made it inside. But the best would be that he actually walks you to the door. Not a true gentleman in my book.
Nonetheless, talk to him about it and let him know that you would feel safer if he would at least watch you walk in or ask him to walk you to the door. Just communicate it to him. Some guys are clueless and we have to help them out. They can't read our minds!
Good luck!
2007-08-17 09:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that it's a sign that he doesn't care. I suggest it's more a sign of not thinking things through. You're only wasting your time if you know this relationship isn't going anywhere.
Statistically you are not going to be attacked. Personally, if I didn't walk them to the door, I wait just to make sure they can get in and didn't forget keys or something.
2007-08-17 09:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you hear from him again, then you know that he does care about you and he is at least "interested." However, some women do not expect men to walk them to their doors or wait for them to get into their houses. If this is something that you would like for your date to do, then next time you go out you should ask him to walk you or ask him to please wait till you get inside before he leaves. I always like to be walked to the door, and I let my date know.... (but always in a nice/sweet way... I never demand it)
2007-08-17 09:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by k_cee_70605 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't take it as a sign that he doesn't care about you because he's just probably busy with his family or something, or work.......you should try and ask him casually "what do u do after you drop me off" that way the question will be out of your head and into his head.....and if he is double dating with someone besides you then he will think twice because you gave him the hint that you kind of know but will wait to see what happens.............
2007-08-17 09:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't know how to be a gentleman. Seriously, maybe he just doesn't know any better. Tell him why you would like for him to do that, and see if it changes. If he argues you, then he's just being a jerk.....he should most definately care about your safety! Better yet, he should walk you to the door!
2007-08-17 09:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by Spicy!!!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just not really thinking very much. Not all guys have it ingrained to do things that are considerate for girls, like making sure you got in, opening doors, giving you their jacket. But, it's not a real reason to brush them off, I say if he treats you right in other respects, he deserves a chance.
2007-08-17 09:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you what i tell ALL GIRLS
when it comes to guys, NEVER ASSUME
yea, some signs can be right. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS, alot can be misleading
the dude coulda had something he need to take care of. ever thought of that ?!
Plus, if he did that you'll think that he's OVer protective,...etc
It's most probably UnINETNTIONAL, so chillout and don't decide what he is after the 3rd date or more.
be cool xoxo
2007-08-17 09:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ahmed F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal. If you are worried about it, just ask him to wait till you get inside. My boyfriend did that to me once and I was locked out! But it had nothing to do with him not caring, he just didn't think about it. You're analyzing it too much.
2007-08-17 09:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something he should just know to do. Like not honking the horn to pick you up.
I would just explain to him that it is very insensitive to just drop you off and leave. He should walk you to the door or at least sit in the car until you get in the house.
2007-08-17 09:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I went out with someone just last night, he let me out at my car and just drove off, I thought how rude and will not go out with him again,,, really a lady needs a man to think about making sure she is safe answer
2014-06-22 08:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Terry Johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋