seriously:~ what could you do if you felt you were being treated differently & socially ostracized by the?

Question

masses in society? not by everyone, but by the corrupt immoral people, and the rest of the people were to frightened to help you or intervene, so they fell into line, into their designated place in society..

how could a situation like this be overcome if you were an ambitious person and wanted to achieve things with your life and had a desire to overcome your problems ?

im 30 have unfortunatley had long term psychological problems, have been through alot of trauma, abuse and unfairness in my life, i have a difficult disorder to deal with, bpd...but for along time now ive felt there is alot of people blocking me from doing what i want in life, preventing me from achieving what i want.....that certain people have turned against me and might be convinving others against me to.....i no it sounds mad, but this is how i feel...im waiting for therapy...ive never achieved anything with my life, because of my problems...& i feel ostracized outthere.
does anyone have serious suggestions

on how i could possiblly overcome this, or if
i can?

am i doomed? because if alot of people are outcasting
me, then there is no way to fight it.....?

plus the good people wont help because theyd be to
frightened to...
iam not delusional or crazy, but this is a serious
question and would like it dignified with a serious
answer.
i just wanna over come this and achieve my goals in
life. what ive already missed out on because of my
prolonged trauma and abuse in life.
iam french and native american and want to relocate
from england..i came here at 6 from france and have
had nothing but hardship , pain and trauma whilst here
ive been a victim of bullying and abuse. now i have
bord pers dis and im waiting for therapy and want to

overcome my problemos

Answer 1

Get into therapy and stick with it. DBT is a type that was developed for Borderline Personality Disorder. Also, recognize that blaming everyone else for your problems is a classic symptom of BPD. Everyone else is not responsible. You are responsible for you. Similarly, trauma and abuse may create difficulties and challenges to overcome, but they are not an excuse to abdicate personal responsibility for your adulthood. Therapy will help expand your introspection capabilities, which will help your functioning in the world.

Btw, people push away or steer clear of Borderlines because they tend to be emotionally manipulative, so drama prone, and blame everyone else for their problems. That's the stuff you need to deal with in a meaningful way so that you stop doing it.

Yes, therapy can help. You'll have better access to it in the UK than the US.

Everyone else: BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER has nothing to do with Bipolar.

Answer 2

You need immediate medical intervention. You have some major psychological disorders as you know. Both bipolar disorder and personality disorder are two of the most difficult psychiatric disorders to treat. However, they can be treated and you should be able to live a normal life with the correct medicines. It could take a long time to find the correct meds or combination of meds to treat your disorders, but you must be committed to stick to the medical regimen in order to give each med or combination of meds a fair try.

One symptom of borderline personality disorder is to blame others for any difficulties you encounter and to see others as responsible for your troubles. This seems like reality to you but I am fairly sure that that is not what is going on. As soon as you get effective medical treatment you will see the world in a whole new light and be able to get on with your life in a productive and fulfilling way.

You do not need to feel badly about having these problems. They are not your fault. You do however, need to be fully committed to whatever the psychiatrist recommends. Good luck. Hang in there. And get the medical treatment you so very much need and deserve.

Answer 3

Looks like you need a boost in self confidence. I've had a hard life myself, and sometimes I feel the same way you do. Don't let anyone make you feel inferior, ever. Only you can let people affect you, so stop worrying about what people could be saying, their opinion is of no importance anyways. If you know your a good person, and you know your going to be someone, then that is all that's needed. Only you can make your life better. Hopefully therapy will be good for you. It didn't work for me, but I probably had different abuse's then you did. good luck.

Answer 4

I just want to say God bless you and listen to Gigi she knows what shes talking about,also id combine that with what donna said,she also knows what shes talking about!! really those were the most honest,heartfelt answers,pretty much id ignore the others sorry!! i do wish you the best of luck and love and i have faith that you really will be ok somehow some way you will get through this ..always remember that whatever you are going through is only temporary,it will pass,even though it seems to take forever,you are still young,even though you dont feel that way it doesnt change the fact that you are ,anything can happen at any moment that can/will drastically change your outlook for the better.you will be ok,you will!!most importantly stay away from anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself!!they are no good,and you dont need them ,even when you feel lonely,remember they make you feel bad so dont turn to them in weakness ok.just hang in there!!best wishes PS.....stay away from doctor,nurses,anyone in med ''unprofession'' they are evil sadistic creatures,if you do need outside help look to a church or other orginazation that helps people ok!!

Answer 5

Well, you're 30 yrs old so you can go where you wish. There are many ways that you can save a bit of cash to be able to travel. If where you have come to has made you unhappy, choose another direction and take it. If no one is helping you... help yourself. While you're in England, you at least fall under National Health Care for assistance with medications and your mental health care you're issues require, which is more than you'd have if you were in the US.

But also take into account that large goals are made up of alot of smaller ones. Set ATTAINABLE goals you can do for yourself and make yourself your own "cheering" section. Further, make those smaller goals stackable--and leading up to a bigger one. Figure out the steps you need to take to make up the pathway to a new and better future. It doesn't have to be a big, huge, complicated future you seek. It can be as simple as having your own job, your own roof over your head, your own clothes on your back. Your life is yours to gift to yourself! Don't let anything stop you! Not your issues, not the people around you! If it is your will and you can accomplish it without harm to others--then by all means go for it!

Answer 6

honest to God, I'm not making this up, & I have been in exactly the same situation & I think sometimes we'e put into this situation for reasons we donot quite know but deep down it is to serve God & maybe to fight injustices.

I know other people won't intervene becos they can't intervene with God's will. everything happens for a reason. just say God, Thy will be done & although this is tough for me, please help me. I promise you from my heart He will, becos I've asked Him & He has never ever let me down....
but you must be open to Him & allow Him to help...also, you can ask angels to help you (if you belive ), I am sorry if it sounds strange but if you ask them; they'll only help if you give tem permission as they never intervene with our free will.
I wish I had some words of comfort , but please just know this, this life is transient, our life will be over b4 we know it & we'll go Home back into the arms of true Mother & Father God, the only thing that matters is that we live by honour & don't hurt others & that we keep our hearts pure..let them do what they want, we can take it...
I was reading the Bible the other day, & it said (sorry don't remember the exact words), Let those who spread evil gossip & persecute others do what they will,if you are good & keep yourself pure, their works will fall on empty grounds...
xxxGigi

Answer 7

Because of your former abuse, you only percieve that people are treating you dfferent. You only THINK that they are singling you out, because that is what happened to you before..and you never got validated, that it wasn't your fault, and you didn't deserve it. They did this to you, by never admitting it, sweeping it under the rug, and making you feel like you were not worthy of an apology or even acknowledging what they did to you was wrong, or that they did anything wrong..No one is against you..you are just conditioned to think this way...Life is full of people who like us, and people that dont .it is just the way life is for everyone, and that includes people who have had priviledged lives, to be honest. we never always get what we want..like the rolling stones say, 'you cant always get what you want, but if you try real hard, you might get what you need:"...

Answer 8

im young and have yet to figure out a lot of things myself, but in my theory, life is all about finding your true self and your true nature. this is in everyone and the closer you get to yours, the easier it is to see others true nature. but experiencing yourself is what's most important, This is what you are here to do. To discover how wonderful you really are. But this is not talking about your ego which wants to be better than everyone else. It is about your true self which is inside of everyone. It helps only a little, hearing that you are the treasure that you are looking for. You need to discover it for yourself. The bad news is that for some people, this true nature is buried under a lot of stuff. So try to be aware of this when people treat you badly. In America, it is not your brother, father, mother, grandparent or best friend that pays for it. It is you who pays for it. In the same way when someone treats you badly, they are not hurting you at all in what is important (finding your way back home to what you really are), they are only hurting themselves. Now if you treat them badly in return (an eye for an eye) than you are only hurting yourself, not them. That is why Jesus gave that advice about turning the other cheek.

in order to gain respect you must give it, i dont have advice for this peticular situation. but just work hard and try your best to get through hard times

Answer 9

It sounds like you may be suffering from paranoia related to your bipolar disorder. You need a reevaluation of your medications and serious therapy.

If there is anything you can do to get into therapy sooner, please try. You may be best served by getting a 72 hour evaluation at your local hospital. Especially if you think you may hurt yourself or others.

Best of luck in your treatment.

Answer 10

pray pray and i'll pray for you to right now i'm stoping to pray for you i've had a hard life to and i know from experience prayer works it's not in your mind people all over the world do what satan wants and satan doesn't want you to be happy so find yourself a church and get some thearpy and read your bible