we had our first one-on-one date a few weeks ago after hanging out with mutual friends a few times previously. the date went great. in fact we made out all night! afterwards, i came to two of his gigs (he's a musician) and he came to one of mine (i, as well, am a musician). and he kissed me goodbye at the one gig. when i called him a week later to ask him out again, he said he'd like to and that he'd call me the next day. but he never did and instead texted to me that he had to work and couldn't see me. but i know he didn't have a gig. it could only have been band practice, which does not take all day! he doesn't call me... ever. but he comes to my gigs, and always hugs me when he greets me and seemed to like me a few weeks ago on our first date. what's going on?
2007-08-17 09:07:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very clear, hon. He's not that in to you. You're not that exciting to him as a romantic interest. He may admire you as a musician....... he values your talent and friendship, but nothing more. There's also the possibility that he has a girlfriend, even tho you may never have seen her.
2007-08-17 09:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first boyfriend? This is normal. He's probably just nerves around you. Give it some time. Good luck!
2007-08-17 16:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anime Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a real job too. He has bills to pay, no?
2007-08-17 16:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by maitraya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like he just used you
2007-08-17 16:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't like you all that much and it's nothing to do with you. i shouldn't matter why not, he just doesn't and that's okay...
2007-08-17 16:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋