Me and My boyfriend started dating like 2 weeks ago and now he stopped calling me what Do i DO?

Answer 1

call him back and ask him what's up..

Answer 2

Hey, La--
Two weeks? And you're worried because he hasn't called you? Were you calling each other 20-30 times a day? Or even once a day?---Relax----guys have lives apart from girlfriends---maybe he needs a little space, or is busy, or needs to catch up on the rest of his life for a day or two---you can't squeeze an entire relationship into 14 days---maybe he just ran out of things to talk about. Or maybe being in constant communication scared him, or got on his nerves.
Why not put down your phone and spend a day or two writing him an actual letter, then send or mail it to him. Don't complain about him not phoning, just tell him what's happening with you, and things you've been doing and thinking. He'll appreciate the care you take and will have something you wrote to keep and re-read.

Answer 3

You do N O T H I N G.

You two are no longer girlfriend and boyfriend.
He has moved on; you do the same.

No big deal. That is why we date - to weed out those who are compatible with those who aren't. If one person doesn't see it as a match, then respect that person's perspective and move on.

To be a match B O T H must agree to dating and the courtship continues. Not complicated. Really not.

081707 4:18

Answer 4

Nothing. Not with this one anyway. Evidently he changed his mind, and you aren't dating any more. You got the old "El Dumpo" but don't be upset about it. Darn, getting dumped is one of life's experiences. It's pretty much a rite of passage into adulthood, and a lesson for the rest of life that sometimes ya just gon't get what you think you're getting.

Dust him off the sleeve of your jacket, grin, and move on in the certain knowledge that there are waaaaaay more fish in the sea than came out of it. The next "fish" you get on your line could well be a lot bigger, better and tastier than "the one that just go away" LOLOL.

Answer 5

I think you should do nothing...he is either found out that you are not the suitable person for him or he has some troubles that's why he doesn't call....if I were you I would do nothing..just wait and see what will happen next, but it's not wrong if u call and ask him about the reasons why he stopped calling you...

Answer 6

Call him up and ask what his problem is. Be the mature person in this early stage of relationship but don't let his childish ways get the best of you either. This isn't going to be your last relationship in life, so no love lost if this guy continues acting like a little boy.

Answer 7

sounds like he might not think you two are right together, the right match, and that he has some communication problems. Don't worry it's not you. no kidding. Instead of dating and looking for a boyfriend, just get friends and be a friend, and find your own life in the things you like to do and learn, and in no time, you'll be twenty two and married to a guy who likes the same things as you....

Answer 8

If it's only been a day or two that you haven't heard from him, then don't worry too much, maybe he's just busy....Give him a call and see what's up, just make sure you don't attack him with an attitude, just be like, "So, I haven't heard from you, what have you been up to?" But if it's been more than a couple days then he is wrong for not calling you.

Answer 9

Isn't two weeks a little premature to be calling yourselves boyfriend and girlfriend?

One thing for sure NOT to do: DON'T CALL HIM! If he wants to call you, he will. In the meantime, get busy. Concentrate on the job or school, hang out with friends, don't let yourself obsess over everything regarding you and him.

Answer 10

You really have nothing to worry about.

Lets look at it like this, you have not said how long ago but assume he stopped even a week ago.

A week is not that long to without calling, he may be very very busy or sick.

Just call him and check up, girls always expect guys to call and it is a bit nerveracking sometimes.

Answer 11

The real reason he stopped calling

Reason #1: He assumes you’re dying to settle down (even if you’re not). “After a few months, men often sense that the woman is interested in something more,” explains Warren Farrell, Ph.D., author of Why Men Are the Way They Are. Even if you aren’t dying to solidify your relationship, he may just assume that’s the case based on past experiences. So unless you make it crystal clear that you’re fine keeping things casual, he starts feeling the walls close in: Gone are the days when it’s fine for him to date other people or go out with the guys without asking you first. This perceived lack of freedom puts many men on edge, convincing them to make the leap back into singledom.

Reason #2: He does want to get serious—but you’re not Mrs. Right. It’s true: Lots of guys aren’t commitment-shy and are truly looking to settle down. And if you’ve been dating awhile, by now your conversations have shifted from superficial topics (like, say, how much he likes your butt) to more meaningful matters—like, say, your views are on marriage and kids. It’s about this time that a man “begins to discover what values this woman has vs. what he has,” says Farrell. And maybe he’s discovered some major differences: You might begin to talk about your dreams of moving to the country, while he is all about city life. Or he might be looking to start a family, while you’re focused on your career. Once these priorities become apparent, they can convince a guy to cut ties if he thinks you’re incompatible. Think of the bright side: He probably just came to the same conclusion you would have eventually.

Reason #3: You’ve gone from cool to accusatory
In the beginning of the relationship, it’s easy to let small infractions slide. For example, maybe he was 10 minutes late to a date due to traffic or didn’t call one night when he said he would. At this early stage, it’s easy to say, “No problem! I know traffic can be unpredictable at this hour” or “Don’t worry, I know work can get busy.” But as things get more serious, your mellow attitude can transform into the very thing men dread: Indications that you’re disappointed, or annoyed, or angry about the very things you once took in stride. “When she calls to say stuff like ‘How come I haven’t heard from you in a while?’ that’s when I get close to the eject button,” admits Rob Frankel, 48. We’re not saying you should just smile and accept bad behavior, but give your guy the same slack you’d give your friends and family, and he won’t feel like the long leash you once gave him is getting shorter and shorter…

Reason #4: He’s addicted to the thrill of the chase
Call it immature (because it is), but some men really just love the pursuit. Nevin Jenkins, 32, typically looks for the exit ramp when he realizes the relationship is no longer a challenge. “Once I proved to myself that I could sleep with her and be with her, I wasn’t interested anymore,” he admits. “I was in love with the chase, not the person.” Inside tip on spotting (and avoiding) these cads: At every turn, they’ll be pulling all the stops to convince you to acquiesce to things you’re not quite ready to do, from your first kiss to a whirlwind weekend away together. If you feel uncomfortable stating any reservations or putting on the brakes, that could be a sign you’re uncomfortable with him. Consider yourself warned.

Reason #5: You’ve gotten comfortable—too comfortable
Sure, it’s great to get to the point in a relationship when you’re no longer being painfully polite or self-conscious. But that doesn’t mean he wants you acting so comfortable it feels like he’s hanging with his college roommate, either. “After a few months, a woman lets down her guard and shows us more of who she really is,” says Zachary M.C. Harris, author of The Men’s Dump Survival Guide. Don’t worry, this is usually a good thing—but there are times you’ll want to be careful. Have you slid from appearing on dates all dolled up to baggy jeans, sweatshirts, and granny panties? Are you griping about your indigestion, cramps, or what your shrink said during your last session? These, dear ladies, are mood-killers and you gain nothing from telling him about these things—at any point in a relationship. Keeping a little romance and mystery in a relationship is something that will never work against you.