ok so my boyfriend wants to try it...ive never done it and im a little afraid. He's been bugging me about it for months and ive always said no. But today i said we can try it. I wanted to know does it hurt? and why are guys so interested in doing it?
2007-08-17 08:37:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Purchase a vibrator that is the same size as his penis. Then before he does it to you, use the vibrator on him. Ask him if he really still wants to try it..If he is not willing to have a go, then why should you?...I am sure he is telling you that it won't hurt and he will be gentle...Don't believe it, that hole is designed to be an exit not an entrance.
Tell him you will let him do it to you if you can do it to him...If he feels pain, then you will know he is lying.
2007-08-17 08:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mad Embalmer From the North 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone lie to you, YES it hurts! Unless the guy is teenie tiny. But, on the other hand, it is an orgasm like you wouldn't believe. Pain and pleasure go hand in hand.
Why guys like anal so much is a question I have wondered for a long time. I asked the guy I am seeing, he said some like it because it is tighter, some because it is the thrill of domination, and some just like to mix it up from time to time, anal - vaginal - ********! My guy likes all three. But, then again, I do to.
1. My advice is use plenty of lubricant (I found that vasaline works best) some use anal ease, but it makes the guys penis kinda numb, so they don't get as much out of it.
2. Take it slow! Especially if this is your first time. Really slow.
3. You be the guide. You need to stay in control of the penis, how much it goes in at a time, how fast, how hard. He has no idea what you are feeling, so you need to navigate.
4. If you aren't successful the first time, don't worry about it. You can try again another time. Get a feel for it, find out what it is going to be, and next time you will be fine.
2007-08-17 08:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Irishgirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
guys actually have an errogenous zone up there which may explain why they want to try. No risk of pregnancy either.
Does it hurt? Yep. Have massive amounts of lubrication available, and there is no amount of slow that is too slow.
Make sure he knows that if you need to stop, you make the call.
On the other hand, some women like it. A lot.
2007-08-17 08:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never done it to a girl, but i have no interest in doing it. From what i heard it does hurt, and it normally doesn't get better, unless you get off on sexual pain. I still don't understand why some guys like to do it, maybe it is tighter? I don't know.....
2007-08-17 08:43:42 · answer #4 · answered by Geoffrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me why guys are so interested in it. I am not because it does not give real pleasure to the girl. If you don't want to do it, you shouldn't. If you decide you want to try...get a LUBRICANT in any sex store. Oh also...if you are not positive about his history...that is a good place for a condom! use water-based lubricants not to damage condoms.
2007-08-17 08:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by franz_himself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy knows what he is doing, uses lube, and doesn't just slam it in there or go to fast right away then you should be ok. As for why, basically what he is doing is making you his "dirty little girl". Anal sex is often looked upon as taboo....so if he can get you to do it......
2007-08-17 08:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it's a 10 1/2 wide, or larger!
2007-08-17 08:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by G. R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, make sure u have lots of KY and relax, relax, relax. it's gonna feel extremely awkward at first and may even hurt a bit (my first time actually didn't), and the hole may take a while to retract to it's regular shape. just be sure u poop beforehand. there's nothing less sexy than s*** on a d*** :) good luck mama!
2007-08-17 08:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by Angelface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think it would be painful but the amount would depend on ur bf's size...
and as for why guys are interested in it, it's cuz it's kinda forbidden. Most girls probably don't jump at the opportunity.
2007-08-17 08:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Glitter Berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear, first times usually hurt for girls while its always pleasurable for them guys. As for they find it interesting coz its innate and so moving them mainly ... they are born and dying as horny as possible.
2007-08-17 08:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋