omg what am I going to do?

Question

me and my boyfriend live 40 mins away. He is the only one in the relationship with a car, but it is not a very good one and he is temporaly staying with his parents and wants his own place. he gets paid under 300 dollars a week. while I on the other hand is staying with my parents and work 2 part-time jobs one I only work on weekends making under 60 dollars a week and the other is twice a month for 3 days in one week making under 80 dollars, and I don't have a car. I am trying to get finish with high school by taking this one last class online whick cost between 100-120 dollars.
The problem is that we miss each other but don't want to move in togther. At the same time we want each other to do the things we need to do that cost money, but gas is too high for him to pick me up take me out and bring me back home. The only two solutions I can come up with is that maybe I could move in with my cuz which is closer to him or we separate for two months til we both get on our feet.

there is no bus where we live and i am trying to look for a better job

Answer 1

Why don't you look into getting a better job that would give you more money so that you can help the relationship. You can find a job in a store working 4 or 5 hours a day and maybe 6 to 8 hours on Saturday and Sunday. You have to pull your weight, because if you move with your cousin, she will want to have you contribute to the household too.

Answer 2

Whats wrong with staying together and waiting 2 months? Is there some sort of relationship mojo that demands that you two have to see each other in person for it to work? O wait I know alot about interpersonal relationships! YOU DON;T! Of course now if you want'd to make a cope-out and not try hard I guess you could pretend its a problem. But usually if its geniune love and you guys are able to take and relate SOMEWAY everything should be fine. Shoot good forgive he join the military, then he'd be 1000's of miles away for 6 months, geeze that would just end the relationship wouldn't it? Stupid people marring people in the military that relationship could never work, o wait it does.... you need to stop worrying or else just maybe this relationship isn't exactly as intense or as worth it as you want to believe. Espacially being so cold and calculting about it, love weather you know it or not, isn't near as important as how you use it, and if you guys can't see each other for 2 months your going to throw it away? or is that his idea? Ether way thats one of those sounds grown-up but very unnessary, besides its your guys INDIVIDUAL relationship no one else can put limits on it but you guys, and if this is the limit you put on it, no wonder you can't come up with better ideas. Me personally don't see nothing wrong with you guys keeping up the distance and communication tell its better fanically for you to get closer. If you or him can't tolerate that it would seem its about what the other person can give, not who they are, in that case, just end it....