I was thinking of going out with a girl on a date and if we have nothing in common to just tell her how do I?

Question

do this?The telling her part, you know that we should'nt meet again!

Answer 1

Worry about that after the date. Just because you have little in common doesnt mean you wont have fun with her or find her intersting.


If it does come to that, just say you had a good time but didnt feel a connection or any chemistry, anythign more than just friends. Thats something most people understand, and I wish more women had said it to me instead of ignoring my messages.

Answer 2

Try not to pin everything on this one date because you can't possible know everything about someone on one date. Arrange another date with her doing something very different. Make the first date you have with her something she likes to do and the second something you like to do. She might surprise you. Have several dates with her and see how it goes. If after that then let her down gently. Explain to her that you feel you are better suited as friends than g/f and b/f but make sure you ring her in the morning to see how she is. She will appreciate that. And when you decide to go out on a date with someone else make sure it isn't with one of her friends and don't rub it in her face either.

Answer 3

first of all, u r shooting the date down before it ever happens, so, ultimately it seems, u r expecting it to fail, what if u do like her and u do have something in common? In the event u won't have anything in common just tell her the truth instead of leading her into believing its one thing when its another. I would choose my words carefully and the tone I use when I tell her, imagine if this was u, and someone was telling u we shouldn't go out again ever, how would u want them to say it to u?

Answer 4

Having nothing in common could be the common denominator. If you are both attracted to each other you should build your relationship accordingly. By all means highlight the fact that you have nothing in common. She may feel the same and respect your aknowledgement. If you feel that you should not meet again maybe it's that you do not like/fancy her.

Answer 5

Be open minded, you don't have to like all of the same things for a date to work, the whole point is so you can find out about each other, at least you wont run out of things to say.

As the saying goes, Opposites attract ;D

Have a nice night and be a gentleman;0)

Answer 6

Just be kind and gentle. Tell her in the way you would like to be told. If you just don't have anything in common, that doesn't mean anything negative about either one of you, you just aren't on the same page. It's really not a big deal unless you make it one. Stop the date as soon as you realize it, there's no sense in dragging it out, esp. if she is starting to like you. Nip it in the bud. But with love.

Blessed Be

Answer 7

First, have the date.

Should you find that the two of you have nothing in common, then just tell her that the two of you just didn't click. Be nice about it, though.

Follow this formula for telling her: Compliment her, give her the bad news, then compliment her again. In other words, sandwich the bad news between two compliments.

Answer 8

Go on the date relax and be open with her. Talk about music, your likes and dislikes, food and so on and I am sure you'll find something in common. The most important thing is to be yourself. That is an attractive quality! Good luck!

Answer 9

you don't really have to, chances are if you have nothing in common, then she'll know it too and will know for sure when you don't call her. If she calls you, then tell her that you didn't think there was really enough chemistry between you two to try and build a romantic relationship from it.

Answer 10

As say other ppl, if you asked her a date, thats maybe cause you like anything in her.
If you are not sur after the first date, or you have courage and you wait time, or you say her she is nice but .... find the end