He doesn't know what to say around me.He usually ask me about girl stuff.He ask me if I like any boys,if I'm on my period,if I have boobs,and a butt,and other stuff.Well,he should know if I have a butt because he's always looking at mine.I want to slap him so hard that he's going to wake-up the next morning.I'm trying my hardest not to lose my cool,but I'm about to gain hotness,and gon' ahead and slap him.Everytime he talks to me,the other boys in my neighborhood,thank that we have something goin' on when we don't,everytime he talks to me.I went out with him for 1 week and broke up with him,and he still wants me back.Please help because I don't want to lose my cool when he trys to get back with me.
2007-08-17 07:52:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you gonna have to have to lose it for a bit and be firm and direct to get your point across. Try to do it privately to help him save face but if he continues then do it in public when alot of people will see it but be prepared for a smear campaign. He might go into overdrive dragging your name in the dirt to put himself on top in public etc.After that just ignore him and don't even acknowledge anything from him not even a look. As for him staring..... let him might be a little creepy but as long as you don't encourage him he is probably on among millions admiring your hot cute body from a distance.
2007-08-17 08:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't slap him - that's unnecessary and immature.
Look him straight in the eye and say very distinctly, "I don't like the questions you keep asking me. It's very rude and none of your business. I'm not interested in you and I am NOT ever getting back together with you. So leave me alone and go away."
If he tries to talk to your after that, threaten to report him to his parents, the school, and even the police if he doesn't stop harassing you.
2007-08-17 07:57:14 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are not giving him mixed signals? You never once said you asked him to leave you alone after the initial break up.
He doesn't have ESP, you have to tell him in no uncertain terms that you want him to leave you alone. No giggling either. You don't have to be mean, just firm.
Good luck to both of you.
2007-08-17 08:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought of sitting down and talking to him? sort things out? maybe he actually likes you, but is coming off the wrong way. He doesn't sound bad. Just a little mixed up. Thing of the good things about him.
2007-08-17 07:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is a good idea....play into it. What I mean is that everytime he wants to be with you...start mentioning that you want to get married right away and have babies. And that if he wants to be with you he has to get a job and buy you the ring of your choice. I tell you that he will leave you alone as soon as you start doing that!
2007-08-17 07:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by yuma yuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes a creep.. i think that you should slap him across the face..like i wouldnt care.. hes a jerk..
And i know i have had guys do that to me too its creepy... i ususally start romurs and stuff.. or im a total B*tch to them.. and they stop cuz they just dont want to talk to me any more..
XD
2007-08-17 08:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't stop doing things until you make it clear that they need to stop. In other words, you need to tell him to stop this behaviour around you.. Not only is he disrespecting you, but ruining your reputation in your neighborhood. Politely tell him, "look, i dont like how you act towards me, so i would appreciate it you don't talk to me anymore" Then ignore him henceforth. It may be awkward telling him this, but it will definitely leave you at peace. Don't worry about his feelings, just worry about yours. ;)
2007-08-17 08:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him u would rather talk about those girl things with your girl friends. And tell him that u need a break from him, because u dont want to blow up in his face. =) that should keep u two as friends ^^
2007-08-17 07:57:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in tht kind of situation before
just tell him straight up but not in a mean way
&& dont wait too long cause then you'll probably end up blurting it out n being rude.
&& just be honest && tell him you dont want to lead him on.
hope i helped :]
2007-08-17 07:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call you in 10 years.
2007-08-17 07:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋