If there's a disorder for the socially impaired, why isn't there a disorder for those who are too social?

Answer 1

Good question!

I'm an introvert myself so I understand what you mean. People think me weird because I can be very quiet and shy. I don't go out all that much. I enjoy spending time usually with one person at a time, or by myself.

I have done some research in this recently. Introversion is not a disease or an impairment. It is a personality type. Rather it is something out of ones control.

The majority of the world is run by extroverts. They rarely understand our need to be quiet and alone. So, they make us feel strangely about this. It really comes down to ignorance (usually not purposely). Extroverts truly believe we should be social like them. Afterall they are very happy living this way. So whats wrong with us? NOTHING THATS WHAT.

Do some research on introversion. It's really fascinating. There is support out there.

Quickly though here (off the top of my head) is the basic differences between an introvert and an extrovert. Keep in mind both are healthy in individuals who were born that way. It is not something you cannot teach yourself.

INTROVERT:

1. The minority of the world's population. Enjoy quiet moments to themselves. Needs these moments to re-energize and renew themselves. They do have close friends, but tend to have few at one time. Parties and large get togethers exhaust them. They live rich, internal lives. They make great writers, accountants, philosophers, artists. They are happiest in careers where they can have time to think, tight deadlines are the worst for them. They do not necessarily require greater approval of society. They tend to choose their words carefully when they do speak, they even rehearse it in their heads first. They are sensitive to emotions and have intense feelings in general. They make good leaders who are great listeners. When an introvert tries to be more extrovertive, they become exhausted, stressed, depressed.

EXTROVERTS: Majority of the population on earth. They are comfortable in large excited settings. They speak quickly and without much forethought. They focus on actions, rather than words. Leadership is very important to them, as is competition. They enjoy jobs with public (naturally). They tend to bounce ideas off of others, and need a lot of social approval and acclaimation. They live a more exterior life focused on activity. Parties and social exchanges give them energy and validate them. They are great orators and speakers. If an extrovert does not act as such they will become sullen, depressed, feel rejected, and act out.

Hope this helped. Thanks for asking such a great question.

Answer 2

People that are too social may have some issues of their own. They may be afraid to be by themselves. They may always need other people's approval. They may be insecure. They may be lonely. These are probably just the tip of the iceberg.

Answer 3

This disorder has been labeled 'politician'. It is at epidemic levels and should be avoided at all costs!

Answer 4

There are depending on what you mean by 'too social'.