I am a cashier, My manager & I seem to have some kind of connection... He flirts and I flirt back, go on smoke breaks together and I know the policy on dating co-workers, let alone managers. So does he. He gave me his number and I want to call but I don't think I should. To boot I think he has a girlfriend but I don't know. I have never been in this situation before...Can you offer some advice?
2007-08-17 07:03:43 · 38 answers · asked by KMB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do NOT do it if you want ANY possibility of working for this company again - not to mention ruining HIS career at the same time...
And since you don't KNOW if he's dating someone else - you should keep your distance ANYWAYS - unless you want to end up on an episode of Cheaters ;););)
2007-08-17 07:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like sexual harassment to me, that reported do no longer become in touch with him, the workplace gossips will or are having a container day with this. additionally, regrettably, many circumstances contained in this sort of subject the boss on no account finally ends up searching for yet another activity however the objective of his affection does. Have a delightful chat with him and tell him good to back off.
2016-10-10 10:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cashier jobs are a dime a dozen. Go out with him. If you get fired over it or it doesn't work out, you can always find another cashiering job.
Of course, if you're paid ridiculously well or just really love your job, you may have to weigh in whether its worth the risk.
2007-08-17 07:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Expat Mike 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first, are you looking for sex? because he is.
second, what is the age difference? is he old enough to be your father ? all he wants is sex from you.
finally , if you want to do this, you will have to keep it outside of work. ask around (the girls, not the guys. we stick together.) find out if he has dated anyone else, can he keep a secret.
you are risking your job. it has to be worth it.
every employer knows that the first thing you are going to do when he dumps you is cry sexual harassment. thats why they dont allow dating, especially a superior. they will fire you if they find out to protect the company.
2007-08-17 07:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can get messy in a hurry and chances are they'll keep the manager over the easily replaceable cashier if a choice has to be made.
if you really like him, call him and get some info first.
2007-08-17 07:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by CGAA72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very simple Don't Do It.
Besides the implications of your place of work's policies, if you are not completely sure about it, then don't do it. Especially if you think he is already involved with someone. If you have to Think he has a girlfriend, then he hasn't told you otherwise. This is not a situation you want to find yourself in.
2007-08-17 07:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Amie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what u should do is stay calm, start to understand him and learn about him his interests and other stuff and in return tell him things about your self, u don't have to rush this relation and remember if this relation dose not work do not feel sad move on in life cause it jus means he was not meant for you and that u will find your true love later in life,and remember god will help u if the relation dont work god is guideing to your right path the right man so always thank god
2007-08-17 07:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Unknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh maybe he just wants to hang out in a group. if he has a girlfriend, i would say forget it. don't be tempted. otherwise give him a call if it's a group thing. maybe bring a friend. i'v hung out with managers at my work and it was totally cool. but then again he didn't have a gf. we went iceskating and watched a movie at his place. no big deal! eventually my crush for him faded tho...
2007-08-17 07:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont associate with him.
If you think he might have a girlfriend, then avoid him.
He'll probably just act like he likes you to get some as$.
Its what my ex-ex-ex-ex boyfriend called a "side job"
2007-08-17 07:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by beautifullover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Get to know him more, and ask if he has a girlfriend. hahah but i dont think he'll tell the truth. Just don't take it TOO far. Maybe friendship is the right word =]
2007-08-17 07:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋