I had (what I THOUGHT was) a minor row with my boyfriend last night - and today, he won't answer his phone at all. There is a small possibility he could have left it at home, but probably not. I left a message just saying 'Please call me' - but no response.
I am in agony here. What to do?
2007-08-17 06:54:06 · 14 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We had made plans for tonight, before all this happened. Do I assume that is off?
2007-08-17 07:03:10 · update #1
Just give him some time. He will eventually call. If he doesn't call later, try calling him again but don't keep calling every two minutes. Let it blow over.
2007-08-17 06:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by scoobydoo316316 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time. If he feels that you are pushing him too hard there is a possibillity for him to try to end your relationship. Find a couple of friends, go out and just chill. Forget about everything that's goind on. Don't call him again. Wait for him to do the right thing. If I were you, I would wait till the very end.
You did what you could do. Now it's his turn!
Good Luck! Hope he just forgot his phone!
2007-08-17 07:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by alLe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the move - now the ball is in his court. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do now. I know it hurts & you probably want to keep calling him to get him to answer but the more attention you give will give him less reason to try to contact you. Just give him some space. Things like this happens in relationships, just give it some time. There's a good chance he'll come around.
2007-08-17 07:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kimi Cabanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. He may have forgotten the phone, in which case you will look silly and desperate if you make a big fuss, or he may still be angry, in which case you'll just make it worse by making a fuss. either way, making a fuss is not the answer. Be cool. Find something to do at home. Assume the date is off until or unless he calls you.
2007-08-17 07:04:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until tomorrow before I got too bent out of shape about it, just to give him the benefit of the doubt, and time to cool off if he did take it a bit more seriously than you.
2007-08-17 07:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lot's Wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out; obviously what you thought was "minor" was more than that to him, and he is taking some time to cook down.
However, if this continues on past today, then he is blackballing you, and you should not have to deal with crap like that. If he can communicate with you like a mature adult, then you may need to move on to find someone who can.
2007-08-17 07:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wash your hair, or do some other normal daily activity.
The idea the we have to be tetered to a phone 24/7 is crazy and unhealthy.
2007-08-17 07:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably busy or forgot his phone somewhere, don't get ur panites in a twist now, relax. When he gets the message u'll hear form him. Stop trippin
2007-08-17 07:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, he could have left it somewhere and doesn't have it with him. Just give it some time and see what happens.
2007-08-17 07:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AH the old cell phone trick... ive done that one a few times in my day... usually wen i did i was just "playin" a game with my gf's head... get her panties in a bunch
2007-08-17 07:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dossi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋