i thought we were cool, i work with him and have hung out with him before, he compliments me sometimes saying i have a pretty face,and my hair looks nice, and i have a pretty smile, but hes mean sometimes, he 's full of himself and he thinks i like him, although i think he's cute , but he's taken..he still once in a while makes sexual jokes, like i was soaked in water one day ,but i had two shirts on so i didnt feel it and he said "you cant feel when you're wet?" with a little grin on his face, he stares at my breasts and has made comments about them.. then he teases me b/c i have a hamster and he thinks it weird and makes jokes about it and thinks i'm stupid, he can be soo nice to me sometimes but likes to put on a show in front of people.he hurted my feelings today calling me dumb and he was trying to make it up to me b/c he knew he got me upset.but what did i do to him? i dont talk to him unless he talkes to me.i told him to leave me alone today and he said he couldnt be ignored
2007-08-17 05:57:40 · 4 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm asking WHY he acts like this.. I DONT need advice on what to do..i just want to know why are some guys like this..
2007-08-17 05:59:18 · update #1
He wants your attention and he lacks respect for you but wants a source of female entertainment. Does this answer your question?
2007-08-17 06:09:25 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is immature, some guys take a while to grow up, my brother of 37 is still like this.
2007-08-17 13:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by David G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not "normal" in a pyschological sense. Motivations and obsessions are always complex... no easy answers.
2007-08-17 13:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably his ego or the pressure to be "cool" by his peers.
2007-08-17 13:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋