The bad effects of anger are many, harming both the self and others. A person may swear and utter obscenities, and may hit others, lashing out with no control. It may even lead to killing. The following story contains a lesson.
‘Alqamah ibn Waa’il reported that his father (may Allah be pleased with him) told him: “I was sitting with the Messenger of Allah (SAW) when a man came along, leading another by a twisted rope. He said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, this man killed my brother.’ The Messenger of Allah (SAW) asked, ‘Did you kill him?’ He said, ‘Yes, I killed him.’ He asked, ‘How did you kill him?’ He said, ‘He and I were hitting trees to make the leaves fall (so we could use them for animal fodder). He swore at me, so I got angry and hit him on the side of the head with an axe, and I killed him.’…” (Reported by Muslim in al-Saheeh, 1307).
2007-08-17 05:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Even if anger does not go as far as this, there may still be broken bones and injuries. If the person with whom a man is angry runs away, he may turn his anger upon himself, tearing his clothes, slapping his cheeks, falling unconscious, or breaking dishes and furniture.
One of the worst things that result from anger and cause social ills and family breakdown is talaq (divorce). Ask many of those who have divorced their wives how and when it happened, and they will tell you, “It was in a moment of anger.”
Lives are shattered and children are lost as a result. Feelings of regret and failure haunt people’s minds, and life becomes bitter – all because of anger. If only they had remembered Allah (SWT) and come back to their senses, restrained their anger and sought refuge with Allah (SWT) from the Shaitan, what happened would not have happened. Going against shari'ah only ever results in loss.
2007-08-17 05:51:39 · update #1
The physical harm that results from anger is very serious, as the doctors describe, such as thrombosis, high blood pressure, fatal heart attacks, diabetes, etc.
If you are easily angered, what are some ways you can work to change that? Would you seek help and refuge in God? Therapy?
2007-08-17 05:52:21 · update #2
Al hamdulillah,may be I am a little strong Muslimah
when I get angry ,may be my voice be a little louder.and I cry in every time I get angry
2007-08-17 19:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by *~Ãya~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not easily angered. When my anger gets past the point I can control it, I tend to walk away and not come back until I've cooled down.
The one thing that deeply angers me is people who abuse children and the elderly. I could never work in the justice system, as I could not be impartial in those situations.
2007-08-17 12:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by faireday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I become angry at injustice. I try to mention the problem to whoever is responsible before action is taken. The goal is to do that at the quietest, sweetest level they are able to receive. The purpose is for them not to be unhappily surprised later when justice, without anger or mercy, inevitably takes place. It always does.
2007-08-17 13:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not easily angered, but I get extremely angry when people think they can disrespect me time and time again in front of my face.
2007-08-17 12:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i get angry easily
over little things even if my sibling doesnt listen to me when i ask tehm to do something, but although im angry i dont do anything i just burn inside
2007-08-17 12:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by *~Rux~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a happy go lucky person. I don't get angry that easily.
2007-08-17 12:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Screwdriver 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It makes me angry when people ask what makes me angry.
2007-08-17 12:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im angry that I read that entire thing.
2007-08-17 12:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Indiana Raven 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋