I've seem a post where a guy said he dated these huge girls because they were white and I can only gather from that that it made him feel like a worthy human being. I thought that was sad that he thought he was worthless or not a person without a white partner to make him look presentable to the world.
Could this be true for some black guys? What is the real reason they go for these girls?
2007-08-17 05:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by Night Nurse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first allow me to say that I am a white man who is involved with a black lady. I chose her based on her spirit, not her appearance (and I'm SOOO thankful that I have her in my life).
Now, with that said, I will tell you what I had many of my African-American male friends told me. I asked several of them (one in particular who had the opportunity to date this slammin' hot black chick, but instead dated this frumpy white girl), and the answer was threefold (NOT MY OPINIONS, just a regurgitation of their statements to me):
1. They felt that white girls were more submissive and willing to go along with their demands and requests.
2. They felt that white girls would give more physical pleasure, in particular oral sex, in the relationship.
3. They felt that white girls would be more materially involved (money, possessions).
In essence, they described the antithesis of the "strong black woman" - a submissive girl who didn't give "attitude" or "opposition" to requests for money, sex, and possessions (to put it bluntly). A strong black woman is not going to roll over and cow-tow to anything and everything. Basically, there is no challenge to dating the white girl, acc. to the statements I heard.
2007-08-17 05:45:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Semi-Evil 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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Why do black guys seem to prefer fat, plain white chicks over sexy black girls?
I've seem a post where a guy said he dated these huge girls because they were white and I can only gather from that that it made him feel like a worthy human being. I thought that was sad that he thought he was worthless or not a person without a white partner to make him look presentable to...
2015-08-18 21:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Geno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's all that's left. Good looking white women go with white men. These fat uneducated train wrecks that are with black men would prefer to be with a white guy but an unattractive white guy has choices, such as an Asian woman. The offspring of a white guy and an Asian woman would be accepted in either society , They would have no discernible disadvantages other than physical size if it was a male, (smaller than a white man but bigger than an Asian man). If the child was female they usually look very pretty.
2014-07-19 17:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
same reason i think a lot of black girls have better bodies than white girls...it's just a matter of personal taste;) but in some cases i do believe that some black guys view dating a white chick as some sort of status symbol to other men and the world ...
2007-08-17 05:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Star 2 · 8⤊ 3⤋
Personal preference.
2007-08-18 14:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by tres_leches_33 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
WHo knows the real reason....Other than a trophy in there eyes.
I would take any hot sexy girl over a cow!
If you are hot & sexy, I'm a white guy and would date you..:)
It's not about the color.....of the skin, it's the attraction, from within.....that makes me grin.
2007-08-17 05:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Perhaps with the high cost of utilites they consider them shade in the summer and warmth in the winter?
2007-08-17 05:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Thats not all ture, its just some people have different taste in females/males.
2007-08-17 05:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Eric R 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Not all of us do(at least I don't) and the sooner you realize that, the better.
2007-08-17 05:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. 3.14™ 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I DON'T THINK THAT'S TRUE.
2007-08-17 05:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋