or anything we do that u dont understand please.......x
2007-08-17 04:29:20 · 24 answers · asked by jodie c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bringing up totally irrelevant things from the past when having a argument about something current. What's that got to do with it ?
Also, using the bumper [what's left of it!] on my car as a parking guide. Why cant you park without denting it ? Emotion before logic, what's that about?
But we will put up with all of that and more. cos we love ya. Thinks... we must be crazy.
There's more... What about when you meet a guy.. fancy him... date him, fall in love with him then spend the rest of your time trying to change him. You are asking for trouble, can't you see that?
2007-08-17 04:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by matty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby it's not so much annoy but what ye dont do that impresses us.... like confidence is sexy, but theres a thin line to being cocky=b*tch. could go on allday about things that lads find annoyin or turn off's (boarded in a dorm with 7outher lads for the last 6years) but every guy's different and you have to take them as they come...
Tips
-Be open, lads doubt themselves enough, they dont need you(not saying you just an example) blowing them off soon as they try an chat....you know the way many girls put up "walls" so that lads dont hurt them and the 1 is the guy that seems to get around them barriers and close to the girl with ease, well lads insted of putting up walls or barriers get put down (alot) so even if your not interested just say thanks but i'v a boyfriend (it's better to leve him with some dignity)
- Be honest, the truth always comes out in the end anyway so dont make matters worse than they already are
- Make the guy think his special, lads often ask about ex's (were compairing ourselves to them) No we dont have to be better than everyone else but we do want to mean more to you than anyone else (family excluded)
- Oh and one last thing....SMILE!!! Girls look so much better when they smile, there more approachable and they might be fun to be around.........hope this helps
2007-08-17 04:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Boulavogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not truly listening or communicating.
Taking something I say and twisting it to mean something I never said then refusing to believe anything but the version she created. Thinking she can read between lines that aren't there.
Asking the same question over and over because she doesn't believe the answer. Communicating in hints instead of just saying what she means. Then getting angry that I have no idea what she's hinting at.
And while this is annoying the worst part is that many women believe they're great communicators.
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2007-08-17 04:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by elurle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Taking things too seriously. Life is just too short to keep getting worked up about every tiny little thing. Relax!
-Nagging.
-Never being straightforward about anything they say. Instead of "I'm annoyed with you because... and this is what I want you to do about it", we get "I'm fine..." "I don't want to talk about it" and "you should KNOW what's wrong." I agree with the comment above; women are supposed to be the best communicators, so why do they never say what they think?
-Making plans for both of you without consulting you at all.
-Obsessing about celebrities. Who cares who is in therapy or who is seeing who? YOU DON'T KNOW THESE PEOPLE!! I just can't understand why you would be any more interested in Lindsay Lohan than, say, Mrs O'Reilly at number 32. Neither is relevent to you. The same goes for TV soaps.
At the end of the day though, we love you just the way you are! Nobody's perfect. Men are just as flawed, but in other ways.
2007-08-17 04:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by adacam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't talk
let us down
never there for us
make us feel inadequate
ruin our lifes
make us look stupid
do all the wrong things
annoy us
make us fall in love with you
say the wrong things
don't encourage us
call us a friends when we're thinking about something more serious
not telling us the truth
not committing
not telling us when something is wrong
not giving us any idea's about how you feel
making us do all the work
not doing things with us
making us feel jealous about your friends
making us beileve we are not wanted
2007-08-17 06:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by rjhfocus77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there are maybe five boys in the group 1 will talk & rest will listen but in case of girls they all talk at one and the same time.girls just keep on chirping and what i don't understand about girls i think i should write what i understand the list will be shorter.
2007-08-17 04:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Human 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not listerning, when we give a solution to a problem say its a crap idea and then come up with the same idea couple of hours later and think its the best thing since sliced bread. say something and forget you ever said it when we remind you about it. proberbly loads of other stuff but cant sit here all night and type it all out :)
2007-08-17 05:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by the orical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally we get annoyed cause we have no idea what ur talking about, but yet, u expect a answer.
We males can't read minds.
2007-08-17 04:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by drillsgt77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u obviously like us but dont tell us and cover it up, and we go off with another girl, and u get all offended like we didnt notice, but u didnt show us u liked us.
2007-08-17 06:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes when they ask stupid questions .they talk to much. and when u are trying to chill out and play a game or watch a film they have to come and bug u .why do u have to be they centre of attention all the time will never understand it.
2007-08-17 05:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ally S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋