Well I use to hang out with this guy day and night, we talked 100 times a day on the phone. However, he would not admit that he liked me, typical Virgo male, we had a fight and stop speaking for months because he would not reveal his true feelings. But we work and go to the same church. He just stares at me all the time, after our last fight he told me he liked this other woman, and begged to remain my friend. I would not. So he just stares, and comes over to hug me and always goes out of his way to say hi to me. Just recently, I have been bringing my attractive male friend to service. Him and the chic he likes, just stare at me all the time. I still miss him. I believe he misses me, I emailed him today. Do you think he was jealous.
2007-08-17 03:34:17 · 13 answers · asked by The Mrs. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He actually told you that he likes another girl. He's hanging out with this other girl. I think you really answered your own question, or rather HE answered your question. He told you he likes her and that he just wants to be your friend. Honestly, not to be mean or anything but, I can't imagine why he would miss you at this point. You got mad at him when he was honest & told you that he didn't have romantic feelings for you and THEN TO MAKE MATTERS WORSE you bring your "attractive male friend" to church, that's called playing mind games. NOONE likes mind games. Oh, and refusing to be his friend if he didn't want to date you, that was ridiculous.
If him & the girl he likes are always staring at you it's probably because they're talking about all the goofy sh** you've been trying to do to get this guy!
2007-08-25 01:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes I think that they take girls aside at a certain age and teach them that it is a good thing or a smart thing to try to make guys jealous. It is wrong to manipulate people. You would not want someone to do that to you. I think the guy likes you, but has a fear of rejection. Confronting him about his feelings is the wrong tactic, if you would have firted with him in humours manner and drawn him out a little he would have been more likely to reveal his true feelings.Everyone is different and has to be handled differently. It would be a boring world if we were all the same.
2007-08-25 03:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by livinalone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know what his true feelings are? He never said he wanted you as more than a friend, right?
To be honest, it sounds like you had no reason to drop him as a friend when he found someone he was interested in. If he wanted you as more than a friend, he would not have gone and gotten a date, am I right?
I think you messed up a good friendship for nothing, and I suspect you want us to help you blame it on him, somehow. Ain't happening.
I won't touch the Virgo comment with a stick of any length.
2007-08-17 03:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mika 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just pick up the phone and call him - there's no answers in Wondering. If you want him more than friends do something about it. Gone are the days when laddies are wasting their precious time in waiting for the knight in shinning armor, step-up girl .
2007-08-25 03:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by sithu7366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here have a hug.. (( )) and one for Ma too (( )) I feel loved. my nieces and nephews my sisters my family is pretty neat even if they are a million miles away I know that they love me.. If I did not know that I would simply have no reason to live now would I? I feel especially loved today.. so I am going to share it with you.. OK? anyone else wants a hug.. come and get it they are free tonight..!!
2016-05-20 21:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just stringing you along a bit, I'm sure he's a little jealous. But jealousy doesn't make things better in your case, men hate other men touching there woman its like now they are worthless and nasty
2007-08-17 03:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think he's trying to be your friend and you are too hung up on him to see that he doesn't like you romantically. He's staring at you because you are acting like a child.
2007-08-17 03:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and call him if you got along that well u should see if you could be friends again
2007-08-17 03:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by island-angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybea little jealous i dont know him so i cant say. but i dont think he likes you enough for you to be wasting your energy on him like this.
2007-08-17 03:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you fix him stright
I PITY THAT FOO
2007-08-17 03:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by OS the Radicalz KST 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋