How does hugging leads to sex?

Question

I just don't understand. I asked this question yesterday about Muslim women hugging or being hugged by guys. And from what I got from my answerers I think is that hugging will lead to sex?
but I don't understand how!

I am talking middle of the school day. Inside your high school or college. before starting of class or end of the class. or end of the school year. or beginning of the school year.

Answer 1

this is the funniest thing ive ever seen ive hugged id say 50 or 60 women and ive only been with 4 women so obviously your thinking is flawed next your gonna say saying hello leads to sex

Answer 2

That is not true, however, the argument still stands. It does not matter if you are immune to intoxication, intoxicants are still wrong. That's because the world does not run on one person. It takes everyone into account. If there is fear of corruption, do what it takes to put and end to it.

For you, hugging is a trivial thing where nothing really happens. For another person, hugging is an enormous gesture of affection. Its better to be safe then sorry, as the old adage goes. Again, you cannot break the law because you are different.
Why can't you use a gun under-aged? Logically, it is immaturity that would lead to unfortunate mishaps. But just because you can control it better, does not give you the right to break the law.

Besides, when men and women get into contact, transfers do take place. Women have a slightly higher body temperature then men. Affection clings on. Hugging does not directly lead to sex, but it is down the line. The inevitable is considered actual.
The society we live in only endorses these types of behaviors. Society has reduced these great gestures of admiration, into simple things to be given freely. Before, in America, it was improper to even touch a women in respect. Where has this respect gone?
Irrespective, the lack of social interaction between genders (as was your actual question) still is logically sound. There is some science to support it, but its mainly common knowledge and common sense.

Answer 3

Touching can be seen as intimate behavior. So hugging, which requires people to be locked within each others arms is very intimate. Think about the body parts that touch when you give someone a hug. The face (cheek to cheek), chest, and sexual organs (if close enough). I don't want to rub my goods against any man except my husband. Because I'm from America, the most touching any other man would get from me would be a side-hug (which requires no arm locking, chest touching, and definitely no sexual organ touching). And that's for people like my father, brother, brother-in-law, etc. Other than that, the only time I touch another man is with a business handshake, meaning I'm in the office and I am greeting someone new. Whether your Muslim or not, as a woman, you shouldn't just let any man hug you. Even little stuff like that should be very limited.

Answer 4

Can hugging lead to sex? Sure. So could a cup of coffee, a friendly conversation, or even a funeral. But the chances are pretty slim. You're more likely to have sex with a stranger while mourning than while celebrating. Maybe they should outlaw "dying" as well.
The people arguing against you sound like the people who don't like to wear seatbelts. They've heard of someone who would have lived had they not worn the belt so now they figure all seatbelts are bad. It's flawed deductive reasoning.
Yes, you are more likely to have sex with someone that you hug. Does that mean hugging leads to sex or that you're more likely to hug someone that you sleep with. Think about it, who would have sex with someone, but refuse to give them a hug??

(if anyone ever says hugging leads to sex ask them if they smoke or drink coffee. If they do, you charget that they will soon be dealing cocain. Afterall, one must lead to the other, right?)

Answer 5

Girl, you even have non-Muslims and NON-BELIEVERS answering this question telling you how EVENTUALLY it leads to more things.

Soon enough you will be sneaking out to meet this guy somewhere. You are NOT God so you can never know what THEIR real intention is when they go in to hug you. You must be really young and worry what everyone else thinks when you tell them you can't hug guys. Immature....take it from somebody who grew up a non-Muslim (Christian) and who made way too many mistakes in my life...and YEAH, I WAS OFTEN CALLED A PRUDE TOO....and then little by little I did a just a bit more....ASTAGFIRALLAH
Converts are not even to talk about these things but I am telling you because I want better for your life....

EDIT: By the way--to all those that say it is TOO sexual to be that way. SEX IS A GOOD THING. GOD MADE US THAT WAY. In western culture we have been almost DE-SEXED (no, not everyone) but we are supposed to touch and see ppl in bikinis and NOT be turned on...then we wonder why people have problems with their marriage or their sex lives...then why they have to do S&M etc....they have to keep trying somthing new...oh, you have problems in your sexual relationship with your spouse? Have a threesome! Add somebody else to your bed!

DO YOU SEE HOW THINGS HAVE GONE TOO FAR?! I hope so!

Answer 6

I'm a Muslim, and I'm laughing a lil bit of the answer. Not that it is not right, but it is just doesn't come out right for non-muslim, I suppose. That answer is the short version, if you want to know.

The answerer is actually referring to one of the sentence from Quran:
“And come not near to the unlawful sexual intercourse (zinaa). Verily it is a faahishah (a great sin) and an evil way.” [al-Israa’ 17:32]

Scholars define 'come not near' as the action of avoiding any things that can lead to unlawful sex.

So, actions like - hugging, kissing, staying alone in the room with non-mahram opposite sex is considered as bad, which those kind of actions are something that ignite lust and passion for sex (Just refer to American teen movies/tv show for clarification > this is me try to be funny). (non-mahram can be simply defined as non family members)

That is why, the answerer said 'cannot because it leads to sex'.

Should be noticed that, that is why, cases like emergency or accident, touch, hold etc; the ruling of 'cannot hug' doesn't apply anymore. (However I should say that there is some terms as well)

Answer 7

Lol. Looking at some girls *ahem* the "right way" can lead to sex. Like honestly, if you're horny enough, sex will happen. Don't pressure her. Maybe she enjoys teasing you. Maybe she wants to feel you out before admitting she yearns for you. And hey, maybe she's just trying to give you a hard-on so she can see what she'll be working with. Who knows.

Answer 8

Honey, you already have plenty of good answers. And it doesn't matter when it is. Teenage boys are horny as hell!! You are way too sheltered.

You know what, you are old enough and will be judged on your actions. We already gave you the reason why it is not allowed. Take it or leave it.

Go if you have not shame/honor. Go hug all the guys -- then come back in 3 years and tell us how you fell in love and were stupid enough to trust him (some guy you were JUST FRIENDS with).

Answer 9

Any physical contact can lead to sex - or not. Some hugging is the kind that friends do - and other hugging can be very erotic. Probably - because some hugging (physical contact) can lead to sex - all hugging gets put into the same category.

But - I hug kids - and same sex friends - and well - I hug almost EVERYBODY at my church - and believe me - none of it has lead to sex.

Still - some hugging could - I suppose. It's all about the intent.

Answer 10

I don't think we should have to explain that to you. Yes, it MIGHT just end with the hugging...but when you start to get physical it changes things. Next time you hug him longer, you'll smell his cologne...etc etc etc....it doesn't mean after you hug you are going to undress and get it on right there.

I am sorry if my answer sounds rude but..........Hey, how old are you anyway?

EDIT: Somebody down below said it is about INTENT --but remember, you never really know the intent of the other person. Plus, your feelings for the person can change at any time or their feelings may change for you (it might be more than a 'friend' thing).

Simon T: Muslims are NOT sexually repressed. On the contrary, Muslims don't believe sex is evil or the work of the devil or anything like that. We are supposed to enjoy sex.

Answer 11

Hugging does not automatically lead to sex in every case.
Mother's hug their children ...its innocent expression of parental love.
Friends can often hug each other without malicious intent.
Ah! There's the word: intent!
Pedophiles hug children with malacious intent.
Some guys (or girls) can hug for wrong motive, hoping things will become more intense.
Guess it all depends on your motive, your intent.