and the guy should go after the girl not the opposite......
how many of you girls would take the first step??
and how would you guys feel about it??
2007-08-17 03:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Robin J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
at the beginning yes...
but if its a longe term them then they both should do it
2007-08-17 03:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I don't agree. I have taken the first step and it was successful. If a guy didn't like it just because a girl made the first step, there is no way I could be with him.
2007-08-17 10:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you wait for a guy to take the first step, you give up the right to complain about not getting the guy you wanted. If you know who you want, you need to be the one taking the steps, you need to be the one persueing. I had a friend that, after I was married, complained that she would have been much better of a wife. (She was wrong...) When she asked why I never asked her out, I told her that I didn't think she was interested.
2007-08-17 10:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys should always take the first step. It is frustrating though, because sometimes guys are scared to ask. Even if they are a little more confident than others. Everyone is scared of rejection. I feel for the guys because I probably wouldn't be able to do it myself.
2007-08-17 11:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cowgirl26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no..y always the guy? if a girl likes the guy then she can definitely take the first step
2007-08-17 10:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, guys should not always take the first step.
If a women is interested, she should. I would not care if a woman approached me, in fact I'd like it.
To me, a girl who waits for the guy is setting herself up for possible disappointment when he does not ask. She is also playing a game, and I'm to old for games.
2007-08-17 10:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Colonel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It doesn't matter who takes the first step. of course the first one to take the first step has more risk of being hurt.
2007-08-17 10:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dreamyraj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that its the guy makes the first move. If you want what you see, go get it! Men don't always want to b the one who has to start something. Actually get out there and do something about it. No need to wait and play head games...right? Good luck
2007-08-17 10:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by tqpinklady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I go for the 1st step...my friend @ work, she likes this new guy, but she's too chicken to talk to him, so of course, im doing all the talking and getting to know him for her...i think hes a really nice guy and all, but i hope that he doesnt think that i like him...hmmm
2007-08-17 10:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. This is 2007, not 1957.
If you're interested in someone, you go for it and take the first step.
If you don't, then you're clearly not interested.
A passive, "I must be catered to" kind of girl is just a turn-off.
2007-08-17 10:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mika 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually I wont approach a girl unless she gives me some kind of signal or sign of interest.....subtle or not
so even though I make the introduction, its usually the girls ques that are the first step
Even if you're talking just of the introduction, women take that upon themselves all the time
2007-08-17 10:29:17 · answer #11 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋