There are too many guys, too many heart-breaks, too many dissapointments...what did you ladies do to solve these problems? :'(
2007-08-17 03:16:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one thing..
am i allowed to answer this?...
hehehe...
solve the problems..
try the scientific method..
heheh..
know the problem.. then learn from it...
be more observant.. by observant.. dont rush it... there are plenty more guys around.. so do the collect and select method...
hehehe.. i know it sound ruthless but i think its one of the best ways for girls to find the right guy..
you watch the guys more closely... and find the one you like most.. not just the one you like most but the one who agrees with your personality most...
besides..
i believe.. that you'll find the one who's right for you sooner or later.... like.. you dont look for love.. love just finds you...
2007-08-17 03:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by DoNotResuscitate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I just stepped out of the dating picture for about a year. I had decided that enough was enough, but after doing so and not searching for any one just simply enjoying my new found freedom it happened. Love found me after all the time I had spent looking for it. Some times it's better to just step back and take one step at a time because the one thing you hope to find is always there when you least expect to find it especially when you're not even searching for it to begin with.
2007-08-17 03:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by skyicedragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop feeling bad for yourself - move on and thank those guys for letting you. it just means that they're not the right fit for you. when you find your fit, you'll know it. but don't go looking for it. being single is great, you have your open options and you should stay that way. don't jump into a relationship and just say "hey why not".......next time you consider going into one, as "..but why?" if you can answer that question truthfully to yourself and really believe it's a good step then take it. the constant moves in and out of bad relationships isn't the guys faults, it's yours for letting them even happen. and the bad ones take way too much effort out of you...all for nothing! don't settle for mediocracy*
2007-08-17 03:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no use in seeking revenge, it only makes you more unhappy. Best thing to do is move on, keep busy, be with friends, go to the gym. Excersize is the best medicine as your body releases natural hormones that make you feel better / happy. No contact with EX is the fastest way to get over it.
2007-08-17 03:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best form of revenge is to go on as if you have no regrets. Regrets keep you pinned to the hurt. So does the self pity. Shake it off and keep moving. In time, you will find yourself in a situation where you are o.k. with yourself.
2007-08-17 03:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Slipped Halo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Every person will fall short of your expectations"
Learn to accept their faults and that they will eventually fail you, but try to build up a way to grow with him and to compromise with each other. There are times that you will bump heads with each other, yes! But talking it out always help solving the situation.
2007-08-17 03:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by dr. phillian here.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go shopping .. and honestly the best thing is friends .... WHO NEEDS A BOYFRIEND IF YOU HAVE BEST FREINDS .. then look at hot guys ask for their numbers forgeting about anyone that has asked you out and broke you up... ( the hottest guys are in hollister ) hahaha good luck babe :D
2007-08-17 03:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Malibu Barbie Babey (tm) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some chocolate, listen to my favourite music and then drown myself in work. After a while I´m so lost I can start finding myself again...
2007-08-17 03:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by missteatime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on ladies be honest you went to a party got hammered and slept with the first man you saw
2007-08-17 03:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quit thinking you need a guy and take some time to make YOURSELF happy. You deserve it! After that then think of getting a boyfriend.
2007-08-17 03:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Joanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋