This guy I once kissed 5 months ago is really looking forwards to seeing me when I go on vacation. He is very nice, but I'm now in a stable relationship and my boyfriend is coming with me on vacation. Maybe we won't bump in to him, or maybe we will... I feel I should let him know he's got the wrong idea. How?
2007-08-17 02:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by camilla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
letter is nice
2007-08-17 02:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just call him up. Tell him the truth. Tell him that you don't want him to get the wrong idea. If you are in a stable relationship there is nothing for you to worry about. If you do want to see this guy then tell your boyfriend that you guys maybe meeting up with an old friend of yours. LIsten a lot can happen within the time of 5 months, for all you know he might be getting married. LOL But thats not the case, honesty is the best policy, even though it can hurt some feelings. So tell the gentleman that you are not interested, but would love too see him. Also explain to him that you boyfriend is coming on vacation with you. (Girl its a vacation nothing to get worked up about!)
Also, texting or writing a letter doesn't really set the real emotion that you are trying to give out. It just shows that you can't talk to him, because you have feelings for him.
*Don't get yourself worked up, have fun and remember honesty the best policy*
2007-08-17 10:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think a text or a letter is good for this situation. The only way you're going to make it clear to him and get your point across is to have a conversation with him over the phone or in person. A text or a letter is nice sometimes but in this situation it could get things mixed up and there could be mis understandings. You dont want any confusion going on because of mis communication.
2007-08-17 09:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send him a text, a letter is too formal for this sort of thing. Tell him the you can't wiat to come over and your boyfriends is looking forward to meeting him as he hasd heard so many nice things about him.
That spells it out loud and clear, with a added compliment thrown in to soften the blow.
2007-08-17 09:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jo C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't send him anything if you bump into him then tell him then that you are now in a serious relationship and are happy with your life, hopefully this guy will see you with your boyfriend and respect that you are with someone else and leave you alone, hope you have a lovely time on holiday.
2007-08-17 09:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
text does the job. a letter will give the idea u thought about it too much and it might make your bf a bit uneasy. text him telling him although you dont regret what happened that you are not with someone who you really care about...
2007-08-17 09:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by DatDrMaHeLuvs 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Text him saying that you and your boyfriend are looking
forward to seeing him. Once he knows you have a boyfriend
he should know the score.
2007-08-17 09:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Minxy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
text him and use the delivery reports so if he dont receive it then you can write him a letter instead, definately tell him thou otherwise it could be quite akward for your new boyfriend if you bump in to your holiday romance.
2007-08-17 10:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by smuggler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight that u r in a stable relationship now. tell your man too, i mean it was only a kiss right. xx
2007-08-17 11:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by christina t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by letting him know ASP...you've got his number....you are wasting the poor man's time.......and you are in a stable relationship....he maybe putiing of other girls thinking there could be something between you...
2007-08-17 09:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write him a letter, texting is so impersonal.
2007-08-17 09:55:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋