2007-08-17 00:34:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are different. My ex-girlfriend was actually the one that was pressuring me into getting more physical than I wanted to be. Not everyone is the same... So just try not to let stereotypes haze your view. Get to know individual people, and not to judge groups. There are guys like me out there, even though it may not seem like it.
2007-08-17 00:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for what? Three *? That doesn't sound like fun. If you mean sex, then it's because men (and women) are simply trying to answer their biological imperative, reproduce and pass on your genes. It just so happens that sex is a lot of fun. It's only when you allow the particular morals of religion to get in the way that things get confusing.
Having said all this, in the end, it's still your choice wither you have sex or not. Do not ever let someone else try to push you into for any reason. If they are that desperate, then they can go screw someone else.
2007-08-17 00:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by Erulechto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 year old virgin here. Could have lost it already back when I was 17 but chose not to. I doubt I will until I find someone I would actually like a long term relationship with that is stable financially and mentally. Basically someone I would want to propose to anyways. You can't really classify women or men into liking one thing. Everyone has different values, priorities, morals, and things that are important to them.
2007-08-17 00:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
from your question, i'm assuming you're a virgin? do correct me if im wrong. well that issue depends on the kind of guys you associate yourself with. if you associate yourself with jerks you will get back jerky attitudes. if you associate you with sensible people they will respect you. guys who want to rush into sex and pressure girls are immature and shallow, they are just after a good lay and not worth the next breath you take. and believe me a guy will say and do ANYTHING to sleep with a girl, ANYTHING. and afterwards he will throw you out with the rubbish and not even care. you'll be yesterday's old news.
If a guy truly loves you and respects you he will wait for you for as long as he has to. because when a guy really loves a girl deeply he is willing to compromise and forego any sex for her until she's ready or until marriage. if he doesnt want to wait he's not worth it 2day, tommorow or any day afterwards. i'm 21 and still a virgin. i've met all sorts of guys who always wanted to rush into sex and as much as it hurt (i've spent sleepless nights crying buckets 4 guys who walked out on me) i was always able to say no and stick to my morals and values. so my advice to you is never let any guy pressure you into doing something you dont want to do, only do what you feel YOU want and not be a victim of peer pressure
2007-08-17 01:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine808rain 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People shouldnt wait for marriage to have ***!!! Part of being compatible with someone is through ***!! Also, men have issues like "control" to work through and that can only really be done through having ***!!!
2007-08-17 00:51:36 · answer #5 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend doesn't mind. Well, when I say he doesn't mind, I mean that he loves me enough not to. If I wanted to he would. But he respects what I want and understands. We are getting married and we know that we don't want to get pregnant before. And since there is no absolutely one hundred percent birth control guarantee, we wait. We are going to have the rest of our lives together to experience that.
2007-08-17 00:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do guys prefer the easy ones?
Why do guys who pay for dinner want to collect later on?
Because at certain age (15-25) guys' brains are filled with sex....
...it's their duty to want to have sex...
...It's your job to go or stop, girl...
Date the ones that ask first, or at least, those who stop when you say so...
G'd Luck!!
2007-08-17 00:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to get slammed for this response,,but if your going to go through the expense, and your time, and effort, and then find out you don't "like it",,then whats left..??? I would never invest my time, money, and life, in a car and not test drive it first..??? Its just a reality,,?????
2007-08-17 00:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
because after you get married,things will turn from slow to never.
2007-08-17 01:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you are not sexually compatible with that person you are in for a VERY miserable ever after, unless expensive divorces are your thing.
2007-08-17 00:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋