Ok, he finally started talking to me. But now he's back to ignoring me. I gave him space. Stopped texting, but it wasn't doing anything so i texted again. He is STILL not answering me!! He's my BOYFRIEND!!! His relationship status on myspace is still single. I'm below other girls in his top friends. Are we still together??? Cause it just seems a tad odd to me!!! It's so confusing. I don't wanna break up with him because I really do love him!!! But I'm wondering if he's planning on breaking up with me or not!! We haven't even been on a date as a couple yet! We went on two dates before. But we weren't together yet. Now that we're together. He's been on vaca since he asked me. He just got back last saturday. But we still haven't done anything!! Why would he break up with me?? I haven't done anything different! I'm still the same me!! What should I do?
2007-08-16 18:26:07 · 20 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long have you been involved with this guy? If it hasn't been more than a few weeks, then he's not rushing straight into the couple thing yet. If it's been a little while, you have to firmly ask him "Are we a couple still?" and only insist on a yes or no answer.
2007-08-16 18:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hon - its kinda hard to understand ur situation .
. . . ok he finally started talking to u . . . had he stopped ?
so u sent text msgs , he does not respond -
u r " below" other girls -- guess u mean that he pays more attention to other girls than to u -
? ? u haven't been on a date as a couple yet ? ?
u mean after he spoke to u ? or did u NOT go on a date at all since u known him ?
hon - whatever the case , and i do understand when u say " really do love him " -
its only clear that this is a one sided love
he does not feel the same way abt u as u feel for him . my suggestion hon is give him the silent treatment too and this may be so hard for u to do BUT u must . dont throw urself at this guy - esp if he has been treating u like this ?
u have focussed on this guy alone and u deserve so much better - someone who cares for u
cos hon - have u heard of pouring water over a ducks back ? thats what u have been doing - u can never get a duck wet - it was meant to be in water . Take pride in urself , take some time away from this guy - and in time u will one day say to urself - what the **** did i ever see in him -
cos when the right one comes along - im sure u and he will be happier than u ever imagined cos u sound the type that deserves the best
good luck and dont forget - NO ONE IS WORTH A TEAR _ CERTAINLY NOT THIS GUY U R TALKING ABT
take care
2007-08-17 02:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...then you need to hear this from another guy...such as myself. It's probably over.
Just the fact that he didn't phone you in the last 24 hours, should make it clear to you. If it's not over, do you really need a guy in your life, who time and again decides to disappear without letting you know everything's okay?
Not one of the top friends on his myspace lists? Well, I'm not so clued up on that particular subject, but is it in the users power to modify the arrangement of the list? If it is, then there's another sign that it's over. Face it, it straight-forwardly means he finds other people's company mor "interesting" than he finds yours???
Best, you break up with him. To avoid the pain of feeling used and neglected.
Yes, it will hurt!
Yes, it's seems like the end of the world!
Yes, you will be miserable!
...
Yes, it will go away.
2007-08-17 01:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Zarius 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the whole stringing you along till something better comes game. You say you don't want to break up with him... but think about it. Would it truly be that much different than what your going through right now? Obviously your not worth his time, so why should he be worth yours. Quit fighting for someone who has no intention of fulfilling anyone elses needs but his own and find someone who gives you the attention you crave.
2007-08-17 01:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by untamed_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a player. List yourself as single on Myspace, and remove his picture. See what he says. It is not worth it to be treated like you don't count. Find you a nice guy that will respect you and take you out.
2007-08-17 01:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's the exact same situation as me. Except, I've been on two dates with him but still pretty the same. I'm not really sure of any advice because I'm also asking the same question like this...
2007-08-17 01:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Screamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to get in contact with him message him a million times on myspace text him so many times call him a million times and leave long messages saying how u feel and sooner or later he will contact u and then talk to him about it ok
2007-08-17 01:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texing him, stop tring to get a hold of him. Maybe it would give you that quailty that men seem to love so much, on top of it!! If you love something, set it free, if it comes back it was yours all along. If it don't, try something, or someone else.
SidM
2007-08-17 01:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by sidm99705 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he feels ashamed of having everyone know that you are his girlfriend for some reason. And it seems like he has lost interest in you. Dump him before he dumps you, and move on. There are tons of nicer guys out there.
2007-08-17 01:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Strouper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i know how it is to love some one but it,s not a good thing to worrie yourself to death about trust me i just got out of a bad friend ship with a man that i was dateing for about 4 year,s ok and he wanted to have me and some other woman to but i tried to leave but when i tried to leave he all mosted killed me . ok so i feel that your best bet could be to let him do him and u do u ok girl
2007-08-17 01:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋