im 14 and my sister's bf's friend is really cute sexy and funny and sweet and a nice guy and he's 21 but whenever the 4 of us go somewere together my sister and her bf are allways there but i want to get him to hook up with me (as in kissing not sex)? how can an almost 15 year old girl get a 21 year old guy to hook up with her and how will i find a place were we can be alone? p.s. i have boundaries i am absolutely not having sex till marraige and i will not let him take advantage of me. and don't lecture me because whatever you're going to say i have already heard it a million times and know full well how not to get myself into trouble of any kind.
2007-08-16 18:18:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi.its good to know your planning to wait till marriage to have sex. at your age, your definately bound to feel attractions like this, i understand what you feel for this guy. and what you desire to share with him.
Your desire to find a place to spend time only the two of you might not be a good idea though. as much as you may think your so strong to wait in sex, in this lonely place with him might make you regret what you might find yourself doing with him. i know this for a fact.
your sister seams to be around you everwhere, i believe shes watching over you, like sisters do. dont plan for the kisses..it will happen the right time with the right person. just be friends for now and see where things will take you.
2007-08-16 19:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clearly if he's 21 he's not looking to go to disneyland for a date jk no really hun he's waaaaaaay too old for you. a guy of that age has a way different metality. your just going through puberty and he's a grown man. he's not going to just be looking to kiss you that's not what guys his age aim for. I don't care what crap he feeds you he's gonna be looking for sex so better stick to 17 and lower. this crush will pass.
2007-08-17 02:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wake up. - He's being nice to you, that's all.
Only a creep of a 21 yr. old would hit on an
"almost 15" yr. old, ...or even want to.
If he did, he wouldn't want to stop.
21 yr. olds are beyond 'just making out`.
2007-08-17 01:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Irv S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your sister's boyfriend. what the ****. you should jsut already know that that's off limits. and i don't care how pretty you might think you are. i doubt he would want to risk going to jail and not get anythign in return from it. find someone your own age.
2007-08-17 01:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by wow mom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋