Should I just forget it all and be in love?

Question

I love her and I know she loves me should I just forget everything else thats happend. We both want to be together, we want it more then anything. Should I just look past all the stupid problems we've had and acept our relationship as it is now, which is us happy and together? I want to, but I just dont know if Love and wanting to be together and things being good now, are worth forgeting everything else that has happend.

Answer 1

Nope there not, love isn't enough. What we do with it is, and its unatural for you to forget the past, because that is love, that is feeling, that is natural. So requinize that with true love means never forgetting the past, you guys are just trying to be romantic in hopes that the fantasy will erase the reality, good luck with that, relationships don't go well unless you honest and meaningful about relating your feelings. And its obvious that on top of all that love bs, you guys have issues that need to be address. Its easy to pretend to forget, its harder to keep it up, if you don't believe keep doing this its exactly what everyone else in our 75% divorce rate society would do. Forget, grit your teeth, and hope it doesn't blow up in your face, instead of confronting the issues and growing together....