Is there such a thing as a girl being "too much of a sweetheart?" or, too perfect, too amazing, too wonderful? This new guy i've been dating for a month now tells me i'm just: perfect, amazing, wonderful and such a sweetheart. Our personalities are carbon copies of each other, we're just alike! I'm almost worried that i'm just "too nice" for him because he says this all the time to me. Is there such a thing as "too nice" or "too much of..." everything I explained? I just need some advice!!!
2007-08-16 18:04:29 · 29 answers · asked by BleuFluer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No,there isn't(atleast as far as I am concerned).
2007-08-16 18:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no such thing as too nice, or too amazing. What there is, however is too close too fast. What he might be saying that you are smothering him with your amazingness. If you have only been dating for a month make sure that you keep the relationship light-hearted and friendly. Smothering someone is the fastest way to kill a good thing.
Also, if this relationship is a fit and built to last then it will happen naturally and while you are just being yourself. If you are getting complaints about being "too amazing" maybe he is just not the right person to be receiving your sweetness.
2007-08-16 18:11:49 · answer #2 · answered by alex vera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as too nice or too sweet, but there is such a thing as too boring, and sometimes trying to be too perfect all the time might lead to boredom. So if I were you, I'd just be yourself. So long as you aren't stressing and going out of your way to make everything perfect, you'll be fine. Guys like girls who **** up once in a while just like they do.
2007-08-16 18:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by bada_bing2k4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda how my last relationship was. She seemed too perfect/amazing/wonderful/all that good stuff for me (it was kinda scary), and she said that about me all the time.
She turned out to be a fake. My answer would be that most of the time it is exaggerated when stuff like that is said, so just heed caution.
And like some other people are saying, if you are very attractive, he's probably just saying that to woo you and get something from you (I think you know what I mean). Just wait a while longer in the relationship, and then see what he says to you. It really depends on what kind of guy he is.
2007-08-16 18:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by It's a me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Early on in the relationship, yes. You may be percieved as desperate or "trying too hard". Lay off the cavity inducing sessions for a little while, but remain nice and sweet. Keep them going a little at a time to keep him around and then increase it back up as you move forward in the relationship.
2007-08-16 18:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Spark of Insanity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he attempting to distance himself from you? If he is then try being NOT so nice LOL..... But if your only reading into what he is saying and his actions state that he is sticking around, just be who you are and don't worry about it. When I was younger I broke up with a girl for being too sweet, I regretted it many years later as I seen her for who she was,but at that time I was looking for something different.....So dont change who you are , you will be rewarded for it later :)
Good luck
2007-08-16 18:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by mlk682 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In life most things are best taken in moderation, however where love is concerned, that is an exception. Can a couple ever be too much in love? Or for that matter, can there ever be too much love in the world? I don't think so!
2007-08-16 18:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by sara r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say the more the better because there can not be to much positives in a relationship....mainly because there are always imperfections, and the less the better...you just seem to have a very good thing going.
2007-08-16 18:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you asked....YES!!! To him your his all this is how he express it. Love is better expressed in doing but for now he is describing his his love. Should you both decide on long term love.......with such carbon copies personalities (as you believe) then it will easier for tow to become one.......Go for it. Love is perfect and kind...think not of its self....
2007-08-16 18:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Agree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Person try to be too nice if he or she hiding something. Being too nice is not good as the other person try to take advantage by talking sweet and nice. So be Careful.
2007-08-16 18:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Moh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe so, but turns out she was living a lie and so was I except I didn't know it until it was to late. You need to relax and take it a day at a time and enjoy being with him. He is with you right, stop worrying so much and enjoy your time together everything else will fall where it needs to be in time.
-NmD!
2007-08-16 18:10:20 · answer #11 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋