so i'm 17 years old and have no experience with boys. i'm really pretty and funny and i have a ton of friends and guy always tell me i'm beautiful. but i have never cuddled or kissed or held hands or anything. i have boundaries and im waiting for marriage to have sex but im getting really tired of nothing happening and i want to hook up with someone. but my parents are strict and they would never let me have a boy over. so where should i go where i can be alone with a guy and we could hook up and no one else would see us? i don't know what to do and i don't know why guys don't like me? please help...
2007-08-16 18:00:11 · 6 answers · asked by dryhigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, don't become impatient and make a mistake...
Not waiting, is how you make mistakes.
Trying to move to fast and feeling like you should have done this or that by now because 'everyone has' is dumb.
If you waste yourself on just anyone..when that special boy comes along your going to wish you'd saved all those things for him. Your worth too much to just waste things on random boys who don't appreciate you. Save yourself for that special person. Dont' mess around just to mess around.
When you find someone who makes your heart feel light and who you have strong feelings for--THEN you should hold hands and kiss.. it won't be special otherwise...holding hands with somone you don't have strong feelings for is just okay.. its physical and thats about it. But when you hold hands with a boy who means something strong to your heart, you feel butterflies, and you feel nervous and excited and amazing, and light all at the same time.
So don't waste yourself hunny! your too good for that! Your prince will come, he hasn't yet because he's a man and men are too stubborn to ask for directions, so he just got lost is all lol...
Hope i helped ^_^!
2007-08-16 18:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't worry about your appearance. If you say you're attractive then back that up with some self confidence. As for where to go for hooking up... I suppose friend's partys or social events (clubs and stuff if you're in school). But since this is new to you, just a warning, lots of guys are assholes and will only want sex and will sometimes go to certain extremes to get it. If you care about your feelings or integrity, I suggest to try looking for a boyfriend instead; someone who you can trust. But if you seriously just want to hook up, no emotions attached, then by all means try a party or event. Basically, just get involved with people and have confidence.
2007-08-17 01:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by aznraver1022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually a guy will have a place for you to go. To let a guy know your interested, try to flirt but be careful some guys will gossip about girls they've hooked up with so probably the best thing to do in the situation your in is find a guy who may be a little shyer and who may be in the same situation as you.
2007-08-17 01:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Buzzinworld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your definition of "hook up"? And maybe you're not "really pretty and funny" like you thought.
2007-08-17 01:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a car right?? well tell ur parents ur going to the mall. call the guy of ur interest to meet at the mall. and well hang out there.
2007-08-17 01:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, you're not ready to do it.
2007-08-17 01:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋