I already told him I loved him and everything, but its cuz he told me first....we're so young, and its like he wants to "move so fast" you know, and Im seriously a good girl...but if I break up with him then it will show I was lying even tho Im not...AAggggh...but maybe the real thing is I needa finda a way to say slow it down...:(
2007-08-16 17:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by Luv2Laf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well It seems like you did kinda take it too fast...Just tell him that you thought that youve been taking it faster than your used to...ask him to slow it down and say...hey can we kinda start form scratch and rework this thing out. If he does love you....then hell understand if he doesnt and hate syou for it..then hes not worth your time....and every girl out there is worth a guys time...by far
2007-08-16 18:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Laura B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clint is not your boyfriends best friend. 1st rules of friendship between guys is stay away from each others women. If you care about your boyfriend at all find a way to let him know his friend has no loyalty or respect for him. Have one of your friends leave a note for him saying she saw Clint hitting on you. And you should not tell anyone your their girlfriend until you can just be with one dude. Nothing wrong with dating many people.
2016-05-20 19:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he is moving to fast in the relationship. And it is making you uncomfortable. So much so that you think you guys should break up. If he doesn't volunteer to slow things down. Or says he will but then acts like no. Then just break up.
2007-08-16 18:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sunset 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your age, but I would say if you are in high school or below, then wait. People's lives change SO suddenly after graduating HS. If you do love him, then work it out. Love takes work, it does not come easily or like in fairytales. If he isn't willing to wait for you then maybe you both need to rethink the whole 'love' thing. Maybe even start over, if you think it's worth it.
2007-08-16 18:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jui Camui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you have very strong feelings for him, and that you were caught up in the moment when you told him you loved him. Then tell him that you aren't comfortable with the pace of the relationship and that you would appreciate it if things could be slowed down a bit.
2007-08-16 18:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jelly Bean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are really into him, but you would like to slow things down a bit, because you think that anything worth having is worth taking the time to savor!!!
2007-08-16 18:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to communicate how your feeling to him. Men just want honesty from their loved ones, thats all. Tell him how you feel that way the two of you can work on it together. Sounds like you don't want to leave him just slow things down. Tell him how you feel and just be straight up and honest with him.
-NmD!
2007-08-16 18:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout if you really do like him you could stay with him..but just have a talk on slowing things down a bit..if he doesnt understand then re-think it
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2007-08-16 18:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, " you need to slow it down cause I am not going to do it this fast. If you dont agree with me then it is over."
2007-08-16 18:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by Pie Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him that option. If you really care about him and he really cares about you, he'll wait. If he doesn't wait, then in all honesty he's not worth it. No matter how many other positive features he may have, if thats a major point you stress then he should be able to respect that
2007-08-16 18:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋