I dumped him on Sunday. Our last "hateful" silly words were exchanged on Monday. I really am pissed. He hurt me. He has since posted silly **** about me to hurt me......and he keeps checking his account.....probably to see if I'm going to react to his stupid postings. We are too old for this ****. I'm pretty sure he can't stop thinking about me. How do you know for sure? He has "pride" hahha.....anyway, I want him to know he hurt me and I refuse to contact him or respond to his stupid myspace headlines but I have to admit I can't stop thinking about him either....
How long will this go on? How do I know if he wants to talk if he keeps calling me a crazy *****...an amusing crazy *****....keeps checking to see if I email him and keeps checking out what I wrote.
This sucks....I feel 14 again....totally sucks.
I was his first.....and he is 29......and he was mine since my divorce....
2007-08-16 14:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by howdy folks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well to answer your 1st question, yes, he IS thinking about you, whether it be good or bad.
Most guys, least my age, think showing "forgiveness" or "admitting his mistake" to a girl is showing that he has no pride and typically just leave her alone and insult her. Another factor seems to be that you stated that you were his FIRST true girlfriend.
When you dumped him he was devasted, most possibly because he blew his chance with his first girl, you.
How long will this continue? Well, this is unanswerable at best. He obviously hasn't grown up to the fact that girls dont like it when they are called "bitches" or crazy. Again, he is still thinking about you, may it be bad or good.
And finally to answer your main question, you know when a guy cant stop thinking about you, its in your question body. If he's writing "headlines" on myspace and waits for your e-mail then obviously he is thinking about you........
2007-08-16 14:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought - if he's calling you a crazy ***** I'd use that as ammunition to NOT talk to him anymore. If he's doing all this stuff to try to make you feel bad, then why do you want to talk to him? I would completely ignore him. Don't reward bad behaviour by giving into him.
On the flip side, I predict you two will be back together by the end of the week. lol.
2007-08-16 21:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by daizies24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really tell if he thinking about you .....you both cant read each others mined..........what ever he is puting on his headline of his myspace his just trying to get u to reply he knows what to say to get you to reply.........i think at the moment his playing with your feelings.........but i think u sould tell him how he hurt you and that u are not going to stand for it anymore............i would let him stew for abit if you thinks he cheaks to see if your on or emailed.........he is trying to get your attention and its working but u dont have to act on it
2007-08-16 21:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. What your thinking is probably what he's thinking, believe it or not.
2007-08-16 21:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you two still love each other
2007-08-16 21:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋