He fight me when he is drunk, Im tried if him
2007-08-16 14:09:19 · 32 answers · asked by mrphymnq 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him your own.
Marry him.
Have lots of babies.
He will be a great role model.
Plus you can take self defense classes and practice with him. See if you can keep him from beating the crap out you. It'll be fun.
2007-08-16 14:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by NY Buzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the acholol that is making him crazy, let me just point that out. You should talk to him when he is sober and tell him he needs to get some help, if he acts like he doesnt have a problem, then the only thing you can really do it try to get his family involved and get an intervation going. It would be of your best interest to leave him alone but thats really not helping him, is it? Has his girlfriend or wife, you should end that part of your relationship if you feel threatened by this man, but definitely try to get him some help cause its hard for people sometimes to admit they have a problem, by you leaving maybe he will sober up but who knows. Being an acholoic is a genetic thing, incase you didnt know that. Most people who have acholoics in their family a good majority will alos pick up the bad habit, i have an acholoic older brother whos father also was an acholic too, hope this helps
2007-08-16 14:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's an alcoholic and he fights with you when he's drunk then thats a sign telling you that you need to get away from him. He is not the type of guy that you want to be around.
Alcoholics do tend to get crazy while drunk and they can never handle themselves when drinking and sometimes that may lead to problems. Get away from him before he hurts you and find a better man. You deserve better.
2007-08-16 14:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie "The burning bed" before?
Get out now, before there are children involved.
You may want to believe that he can get better, but really, if you don't wake him up by leaving, he won't change. Thing is, when you do that, you can't give him a second chance. Otherwise he will never truly learn the consequences of his actions. Besides, he probably loves the bottle more than you anyway, and that is something you can't compete with.
2007-08-16 14:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i never been through this....BUT iam definently sure you NEED TO LEAVE HIM...he doesnt know the pain and hurt hes causing you....and also the missing persons or dead people that show up because their drunk husbands...you need to leave him...a guy that abuses you and mistreats you dosnt deserve YOU...you need to get some halp you need to get the strangth to get away FROM him and tell somone you trust whats going on ....it always starts out with the beer then the"little" fights then comes the controlling attitude( its when there watchibg your every step and trying to control EVERYTHING you do) then comes abusing and hitting part of the tradgedy.....then when it reaches the next step...its too LATE....trust me you need to get out of there know!!!!...plz dont make the same mistake other womens around the world makes everyday...and keep in mind a guy that mistreats his wife/girlfriend dosnt LOVE her!!!!....plz GOOO!!!!
2007-08-16 14:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Eka D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is more to your story that you have not mentioned, I do not understand why you began to date this guy.Are you dating him in order to help him with his issues, or he is a school project, or men are in short supply in your town. Please do not be offended because I am not trying to be sarcastic, hurt your feelings, disrespect you in any way shape or form, or be facetious. I am in fact trying to get you to really think if there is a problem making a decision here.While I don't know your ages or goals, it is apparent that you can not make any positive headway in your life with this guy there.You can help him get his life together(if he wants to---AA meetings, support)only do it as a friend not as his girlfriend.Good luck to you.
2007-08-16 14:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away as fast as you can . It want get any better. Start looking for a new man .Some one new with out all this baggage. Some one who will treat you like a queen, instead of a punching bag.
2007-08-16 14:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you grew up with him, you knew he was an alcoholic before you started dating him. This means that, on some level, you wanted an abusive relationship. Dump him and seek some personal counseling for yourself. Otherwise you will wind up in another relationship just as dysfunctional as this one.
2007-08-16 14:15:21 · answer #8 · answered by JM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out while you can, I dated a alcoholic for 7 years. It does not get any better, only worse. Once they get by with something, they figure you are going to stay and it gets worse.. I am speaking from experience of 21 broken bones in my body over a period of time, not to mention the mental and emotional anguish.. Please leave him before it's to late....
2007-08-16 14:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you slow? Stay away from him. Break all ties. You need to tell him of course your plans and then go through with them. If he counties to call you, block his number. If he continues to come over your house, don't answer the door. If that doesn't work then call the cops.
2007-08-16 14:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋