Fiancée could ask most probable questions?

Question

I have recently met a girl. Unfortunately, we did not get enough time to talk openly while we were together and due to that fact that we live 300-miles away form each other. However, I was told by her very close friend that she really likes me and want to marry me. Likewise, I personally get some impression form my fiancé that she is going to get me a proposal of getting married. Moreover, I myself really like her and want to marry her too. Since I got the message form her friend, I topped to talk to her because I do not know what to ask her and she might asked me something which I will be answer wrongly or stupidly. Therefore, if I know some clues which means the most probable questions she might asked me then I would be able to get ready those answer.

I don’t know what types of question I would most likely to be asked by her? And what types of question shall I asked her? and also what I should not asked her at all. Furthermore, I am not handsome but she is very beautiful and 8 years younger then me in that cases I am bit weak as well.

I really need help in this matter please help me if anyone can.

Answer 1

hey people :-) your answers sound very North American in the sense that you're likely unaware that it's normal *Indian* custom to get engaged and married after barely having known someone a very short while, as love (if at all) is supposed to grow "afterwards") because its all aranged for you by family.

But as for you, my friend - the WORST thing you can possibly do is to ask, seek and try to REHEARSE "good answers" !!!!! You need to answer from your own heart and mind, and be truthful and sincere, that's what is most important ! No one else can do that for you! What is even more important is knowing what questions YOU should be asking of BOTH yourself AND her. Before anything else, you need to establish what are your core values and hers, and how COMPATIBLE you both are. What is really important to you - and her. What do you - and she - really believe in, or are passionate about. What do you - and she - feel strongly against. What motivates you - and her. What really drives you - and her. What do you - and she - really care about, in life. What do you - and she - love to do. What really makes you happy - and her. What are the things you - and she - visualise yourself doing in 5, 10, 15 years from now. What would you say are your - and her - most valuable qualities as a person - and why. What are the most important things you are seeking in a wife - and what are the most important things she is seeking in a husband. And if you - and she - were looking back at the end of your INDIVIDUAL lives, what would "a worthwhile life, well-lived, well-spent" mean to you, and to her - in other words, what would make life fulfilling for you - and for her.

Remember, you are considering someone to spend - and SHARE - the rest of your life with - not a housekeeper, cook, servant or domestic doormat. Not a roommate or even a companion. Don't waste time on anticipating or asking SUPERFICIAL questions like a lot of people do. Above all, you need to take the time to UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER - if you don't want to end up within 5-10 years taking each other for granted, and settling into a boring dull routine, just because "society" expects you to live that way. "Society" doesn't pay your bills - you do. "Society" doesn't experience your hopes, dreams, ambitions, fears, anxieties, joys, sorrows and worries - you do. "Society" doesn't live your life - YOU DO !!!! You don't "owe" "Society" ANYTHING ! You owe it to yourself.

I know this is not typical of Indian arranged marriages, but it's YOUR life, my friend. Ask questions- of yourself above all -FIRST. Know what's truly important to you. Then go for it.

Good luck !!

Answer 2

The situation you describe here is not the best way to go about finding someone to marry. To decide in a few hours that you want to spend your life with some one sounds a bit irrisponsible. You are more likely in lust than in love and you just need to cool off a bit. You need to get to know a person not just fire off a list of pre-fab questions if you are going to find a partner for a marriag that will last longer than the icing on the cake.

Answer 3

What you need to do is relax. Let conversations unfold as they will and simply be honest when asked questions. Ask her questions you'd like to know the answers to. And if she asks you to marry her and you'd like to do so, honey, say YES!

Or, you know, you might need to do the asking at some point. It can happen both ways.

She clearly sees something she likes whatever you happen to look like. I think that's great.

So talk to her. Don't overthink it. Just be in the moment with her.

Best of luck to you. I wish you both a great deal of happiness.

Answer 4

You met a girl, you did not get enough time to talk and she's your fiancee? Don't worry about questions buddy, if you can get engaged 'without enough time to talk', you can probably get married, as well. Answer any questions that may come up, with stony silence.

Answer 5

A resent engagement is a good sign. additionally, he says that he loves you with all his heart and soul. there is not any ensures in love or life. you purely could desire to take a deep breath and believe. If it works, it works. believe your self too. you have each and all the materials you desire interior you to make the the main suitable option judgements for you and your son. What you're feeling is chilly ft.

Answer 6

I can't imagine getting married to someone that I am afraid to talk to for fear I may say something stupid. Sounds like you need to get to know her more before you get married.

Marry for love not for like, marriage is a lifetiem commitment.

Answer 7

all you need to ask her and talk about it is how you feel about each other. Things will go from there.

Answer 8

Don't worry. Everything will be fine.

Answer 9

you don't make any freaking sense.

Answer 10

huh?