My mother in law 75 with Alzheimers requires assistance showering as she recently had a total hip replacement (about 9 weeks ago now) and is not supposed to bend certain ways. We have already had one slippage and don't want another one. My father in law can't help because he just had cancer surgery. So I have hired a CNA to come in to assist with showering both MIL and FIL. All she does with MIL is to do her lower legs, then steps out and allow MIL to do own shower. However MIL doesn't remember that she is to receive help, and refuses when they come to help telling them she is fine and can do it on her own. I am tired of repeating myself to her and telling her that she does need some assistance because of the surgery. I just want her to be safe until FIL is better and able to assist in case of an emergency, which will be about three more weeks. They cannot live with us so that is out of the question. Two years of being on call 24/7 is taking it's toll on me. Any suggestions?
2007-08-16
13:21:27
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Diane B
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