Help, why does my gf need so much attention from men?

Question

even when im out with her, she still needs to look to see if they are looking, why is this.

any help (ideas) on how i should talking to her about it.

Answer 1

I know this is crazy and I am coming from a gay relationship but if your chick needs all this extra attention from others then there is something else going on that (in my own 10yrs. of crap) you cannot solve, she has probably had some sexual abuse as a child and you need to move on. I am a lesbian and I have spent years of messing around with a beautiful chick and she is just friggin' nuts. She want everyones attention until she actually receives it. Go find another one sweetie. Please don't waste your time. Hell, I'll go straight and I'll go out with you.Don't waste your time on damaged goods.

Answer 2

This is a tricky one. Don't judge her for it, it is all about insecurity and something which she won't know how to stop. Just make sure she knows how attractive you find her and try not to worry too much about it.

One day she may not need the attention from others or she may always have the need for the attention. As long as she's loyal to one man then it isn't too big a problem. x

Answer 3

Jungone is correct! She either needs the attention, because she isn't sure of her worth as a woman and needs reassurance (from many sources), that she is attractive to men. Or else, she is not satisfied with you, and is looking to trade you in for another. A third possibility might be that she doesn't really believe that you love her enough, and she is seeking someone who does! *sm*

Answer 4

well do you give her enough attention?? most girls love attention and are always seeking for it..its either because they love attention or they just not getting enough of it. if you think you could give her more attention then try and do that but if that doesn't work and she's still looking for attention then sit down and talk to her nicely maybe over a nice dinner or something like that...it's obviously bothering you so tell her exactly how u feel...

Answer 5

She sounds like she needs validation from guys. If she has you and you guys have a good, strong relationship, then she should be happy with you and not feel the need to have a wondering eye.
But, you should just be open and honest with her and ask her why she does what she does, tell her how you feel about it and see what happens from there. But, on the other hand, if she doesn't want to compromise, then she's not worth it.

Good Luck man.

Answer 6

Its flattering to have guys looking at you if its a new relationship then its definitely going to happen cause shes not used to the situation yet Just let her know its bothering you that she still needs a little of other guys attention even when she has all of yours

hope it helps

Answer 7

She has low self esteem. Thats my guess at least. By all the men looking at her she is feeling desired and adored. Its all false and she is stupid bc she has a great guy like you who has been putting up with it. I bet when she does that stuff, it makes you feel like you arent being the kind of man she needs. However, that isnt true...most likely isnt atleast. Just let her know that you love to look at her and do things for her and it hurts you when she is always staring at everyone else.

Answer 8

Her dad either gave her no attention growing up, or somehow she has gotten into her head that this is how she is valued - by her looks and appeal to men. That's a shame.

You should tell her that you are upset by this, and maybe ask her if she realizes she even does it.

Answer 9

i guess she may feel insecure and is looking for approval and reassurance that she really is attractive to the male species or she is not getting what she needs from you !? whatever that may be? do you say how gorgeous she looks and pay her buckets loads of attention and listen with genuine interest while ...... make eye contact........... with her.......for a bit longer ...........than...........you think ...you would ..........dare normally..Mmmm......................dont forget to make subtle ....and yes i mean subtle body contact! we re not talking bout the grab and go situation!Oh no! its the gentle sort of body fusion when u can have very very close contact (OK!!!OK!!keep your clothes on! lets keep it legal ! don't forget were in a public place here!) that leaves you aching for more! and always be a gentleman. always try and remember to ask politely "is it OK if i .......

Answer 10

she might think shes not getting enough attention 4rm you personally, so do something unusual for her. cuz u kno girls are really needy, the conceited ones want you to compliment them everyday, every hour. maybe you shud tell her how u feel n that u dont like it. if she respects you, she'll stop. maybe, u shud make her jealous by making other girls get your attention. or maybe she was a natural flirt, no one-man woman, n if she keeps at it, leave dat hoe!