Im freaked out about putting a tampon in... and my bf is way big ( im a virgin) so do you think we can do IT without it being extremely painful.?
2007-08-16 11:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Mia S 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Ummm... you're too young to be using TAMPONS, and you're considering SEX?!?!?!?
Think about it this way - that particular part of your body (which I won't name because it will be TOO embarassing to someone young enough to refer to sex as "it") can stretch wide enough to give BIRTH to a baby...
Yes - it will hurt the first time (how much will depend on how rough he is with you), and it might hurt for the next few - but it will become less painful each time you do "it" in the future ;););)
2007-08-16 11:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to refer to intercourse as "IT"... do you really think you are ready for IT? I mean... yeah... its gonna hurt. Everyones first time is usually a bit uncomfortable... but the question is... whats so wiggy about tampons? Does it hurt to put the tampon in? or does just the idea kinda freak ya out a bit?
2007-08-16 11:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by loki_only1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be ok *IF* your boyfriend is the type to go slow enough to take care of you...
Personally, I think it would be best in your situation to wait until you're married... someone you've promised to stay with forever is surely going to take care of you, and you won't need a condom because in such a relationship there is an ultimate trust factor. Really, until you're actually married, I wouldn't trust going without...
I had the same problem... and unfortunately my first time was with someone who became more interested in taking care of himself than me... it was very unpleasant. To this day... I'm still not crazy about sex at all, even though my husband does his best to take care of me... my first experience jaded me against it.
Really... wait til you're married.
2007-08-16 11:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by MotherBear1975 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll be able to do it easily. your vagina is very elastic and stretches when you're aroused. You may be a bit sore after the first time, but it won't last long. Just be sure to use condoms each and every time.
2007-08-16 11:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably going to hurt a lot. It'll probably hurt the first few times you do it.
You should take it slow...no need to rush into sex. If you decide to do it anyway, use condoms to help prevent against pregnancy and diseases.
2007-08-16 11:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by mari m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope!.... and I'm gonna give you one little extra.... "IT", your first time will be the ONE time you will remember the rest of your LIFE!!!.... it shouldn't be in the back seat of his daddy's car, or a sleazy motel room!!!.... wait... wait until you are more sure of your body, and he's able to provide you with a night to remember always!!!... a gal's virginity is a GIFT that she can only GIVE away ONCE!!!.... pick the winner carefully!!!...
2007-08-16 11:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋