Okay I have ALL boy cousins and when we all get together as a family i feel left out. They are always playing vidieo games, calling me names and all that guy stuff. I hate hanging out with them now because im considered as "one of the guys" and im nothing like that im a total girly girl. I have talked to my parents about it, but they are just like there your family. We are all going on vaca together and im kinda dreading it! Also they are coming to were i live next summer and i told my parents that i probably wont hang out with them ill hang out with my friends, but they thin this is mean, but the thing is when im at there house they go hang out with there friends and leave us.
I know this is long, but what should i do?There my family, but im totally board around them. Also do you think me leaving then for my friends is rude? Also what am i supposed to do when we go on vaca they wont do the whole looking for hott guys thing and i really dont think my aunite and mom want me with them.
2007-08-16 11:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
trust me, i've been in this situation before,except i have almost all girl cousins.what you need to do is explain to your parents and let them know that how you feel is not being ''rude'' but is the truth. I also absolutely do not think that it's rude for you to leave them for your friends because they do the same exact thing to you! so go ahead and give them a taste of their own medicine! and for the vacation thing just try to avoid them and do what you think is fun and what YOU want to do!even by yourself if you have to, as long as a couple of cousins get in your way of having an awesome fun vacation! well, i hope my advice helped and good luck!=)
2007-08-16 11:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by darkness in the suburbs... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no cousins and i had only one sister, who was older and not into the same stuff as i was, so i know what it's like being the only girl. i've always been one of the guys but i liked it that way. i'm not even close to a girly girl.give it a try. there are some perks to it.
as for hanging with your friends while they're visiting, i don't think it's rude at all. spend some time with family and some with friends. it'll all work out. it's not til next summer anyway. why worry about it now. alot can change in a year.
2007-08-16 19:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very upfront with your mom. Ask her what a good solution would be. Maybe you can have a friend stay with you up there.
I feel really bad for you; I bet your mom would too if you told her what you told us here.
2007-08-16 18:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by autimom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋