I just discovered that my boyfriend?

Question

ok he drank my powerade. I went in the fridge to get it and its gone. I really wanted it (im pregnant) so I called him at work and said "thanks for drinking my powerade" and all he said was "is that all you called for?" I wanted an apology!! was i wrong to call him and say that?

i guess some of you have never been pregnant. and I will go buy another one but I wanted it NOW and when your pregnant thats how it is sometimes. and he wasnt busy, I know what time to call him at work when hes not busy.

I jsut wanted to know maybe i should apologize or something. I kinda feel like a b*tch about it now

lol terra, i would have freaked out over that one too. ive been getting better about not freaking out over little things though, i dont know what my prob is today.

P.S. i jsut called him and he admited he was the one who did wrong and wasnt surprised that i was mad

Answer 1

I don't know. I've been freaking out over some very strange things lately myself. I think it's normal how you feel. Just the other day. I went to go get the sheets out of our 12yr old's room to wash them & she got blood stains all over them, I didn't think anything about it at first till I noticed that I had an entire bedset that was still in package (never been opened) that looked very similar to this. I checked the tag & it said it was for a king sized bed (she has a twin) she had it folded over twice to fit her bed. I went & looked in the hallway linen closet & noticed that my beautiful, brand-new, never been opened, sea-foam green sheets were not there. She had opened the package of a brand new bedset, that didn't even fit her bed & used them without asking. Basically I flipt the you know what out, I called my husband at work & told him all about it & after I was done chewing anything that moved I went & cried about it. Just try & understand that you may be being a little wacko over something that doesn't really need to be wacked out over. It still happens to all of us sometimes. Especially with all the hormones & such. Take care.

Edit: Am I the only one who hates when the high & mighty women come in & say, "I think you are taking pregnancy to the extreme"? Are these the same women that bash on other moms who let their kids eat a happy meal or watch tv? Hello! not everyone has an easy pregnancy, people get grumpy, it happens, it's life. I have my 12 yr old step-daughter who has severe psoriasis that I homeschool, a two yr old, & I'm 4 1/2 months pregnant & yeah I snap, sometimes quite often because I'm nauseous, irritable, & on top of having a load of crap to do while feeling like crap, I have a toddler screaming at me & my husband asking where his socks are, even if I'm hunched over the toilet puking, so yeah, after all that if someone ate my last f**king twinkie I would be pretty pissed off. Back off, sorry some people didn't have an easy as a time as you did. It doesn't mean she's using her pregnancy as an excuse to be b*tch.

Answer 2

I suppose it was somewhat rude if your boyfriend knew you specifically bought that powerade for yourself. But, chances are that he just drank it innocently and he felt offended that you called him up while he was working (maybe he was really stressed or busy) to ask him about a drink.
That happens a lot in a family that someone else will eat or drink your snack. When the baby comes you will soon realize that NONE of your snacks are safe from toddlers!
I would just let it go and buy two powerades next time. Good luck!

Answer 3

Ok, Hun, you probably would call him up if you weren't pregnaent. Just call him back and tell him to pick up a 12 pack of powerade. I know how you feel cause my BF does that to me all the time. I just call him and tell him that i am out of powerade, Or whatever i want and have him pick it up on the way home.

Answer 4

It must of felt bad as I know what it is like when you are craving and wanting things. But he does not experience the same and probably felt you fussed over nothing . Tell him that it is like a medicine - if you do not have it you feel bad and ask him to get you loads.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I does happen sometimes when you are pregnant......it was probably just your hormones speaking to him..........I would apologize to him..........I know your pregnant and you really wanted your powerade but you could have went and got another one ..........maybe talked to him about it when he got off of work?

Answer 7

I am the same way I would of called him to tell him I was mad too but really he is at work so it probably isn't the right time to fight with him.

Answer 8

I totally understand, I wanna choke my bf when he takes something that I bought for myself! haha. That's just the way it is during pregnancy. We're more sensitive. Just explain it to him in person but remember to also apologize. It's ok to get upset once in awhile, but just help him understand the problem.

Answer 9

My husband ALWAYS drinks my stuff when I walk away or are not looking -WTF! I keep telling him to get off his lazy *** and just go get his own drink!

I would be mad too if my husband did that, I totally understand what you are feeling. Even though it might be trivial, I'm sure it's not the first time he's done that so it gets on your nerves!

Answer 10

I think you are taking pregnancy to the extreme. We all go through that feeling, but it does not excuse us from being courteous. That was just a spoiled thing to do. Just ask him to bring you one home. He should not have apologized but it does show that he is the bigger person.