when out on a date the first time with a guy, and things seem to be going well,would it excite you if he just grabbed you and kissed you with no warning and without asking? Or do you prefer planned and predictable moves when dating a guy?
2007-08-16 04:05:09 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should not only ask me, he should beg me and hope I am feeling generous that night.
2007-08-16 04:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't really prefer planned and predictable moves however if things were going well and suddenly he grabbed me and kissed me believe me he would lose alot of points not to mention the slap that he would get. i don't think it's a very good idea, at least not for a first date. You need to know if the person is attracted to you int hat sense before you make that kind of move.
2007-08-16 04:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on the guy, the right moment and the environment. If I really like the guy and I feel comfortable I maybe wouldn't mind if he grabbed me and went for a kiss. But I will say that is rare that I will tolerate that from a guy. I mean literally everything has to be right. The moment, guy, romantic, good environment, he has to look and smell good and he has to be very smooth and charming for me to be cool with it. Lastly, a guy being planned and predictable is not cool either...I prefer a guy to be unpredictable and spontaneous. It's all about using your better judgement
2007-08-16 04:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sexysass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would excite me if he grabbed and kissed me without warning or asking. Just make sure it's not while I'm eating or something like that. Like when your walking and talking.
2007-08-16 04:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out on the first date, that would freak me out and I would run very far away from you!!!! You don't want to be too aggressive on the first date. Girls like to have a slow boil, if you know what I mean. There is nothing like, just getting closer and closer and finally when it happens, you get stars! We don't want predictable we want ROMANTIC! So don't kiss her until the third or fourth date. She'll know that you are really into her by continuing to date her even though she's not making out with you, and you'll have hook,line, and sinker!
2007-08-16 04:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is the first date. If you don't really know each other, then that would be bad. But at , the end of the date is good. If you do know each other pretty well, then maybe. But it depends on how the girl is feeling. Like if she having a good time.
2007-08-16 04:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you never know if the other person thinks things are going the same on the first date. I'd say be spontanious on the second. And a soft peck on the first until you feel where she's coming from.
2007-08-16 04:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Michele 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be cool, if i had known the dude for awhile... not like one of those things when he sees you at the mall for the first time, asks you out on a date that same day, then just kisses you from out of no where... that would creep me out
2007-08-16 04:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women, if they are attracted to a man, do feel excited or it can be good. Spontaneity can be a really great thing. Just know how to tell if she only wants to kiss. That may be all she wants, at that time. good luck on that one.
2007-08-16 04:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by travelinggirl1951 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on a first date he some guy kissed me it wouldnt be that cool maybe on a second date that would be way better but its a good night thing a kiss not a out side in public.
2007-08-16 04:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by cutiebabexx420 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the chemistry - When my blind date showed up to my house for the first time, I was a little unsure of him - So we went out to dinner a wonderful walk on the beach in San Francisco &we had spoken on the phone quite a bit prior to us actually going out - Needless to say, I went in for the kiss, he was going to kiss me on the cheek & I went in for it - He was quite surprised because I took charge...... 18 years later (married for 13) & 3 kids later, I'm glad I went in for the kill - Your date just might surprise you herself.....Sometimes predictable is just boring..... A man who just comes in for it & takes a kiss @ whatever moment looks the best, leaves her wanting more - So leave her with that thought & she'll come back for more - Hey it worked for ME quite nicely.... Good Luck
2007-08-16 04:18:43 · answer #11 · answered by Lords of Stockton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋