ok.. so i have a friend on myspace.. she's a girl.. and i love her so much.. she's also a really good friend...
So she posted a few surveys and the first one said: do u have a crush? her response was "Sorta.. kinda... NO ;)... now however her recent surveys say "maybe! =)"
Since her first bf broke up with her.. the only GUY apart from her brother she has seen over the summer is me.. we took a driving class together... i have another question about that that u can use to answer my question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AryHPkDqewE8oGoOC_hVht7ty6IX?qid=20070726211309AAMnrjd
Since then she told me online that she was feeling lonely bcs it seems like everyone is paired with someone else and she feels left out... besides from some other guy on myspace that she called hot without his glasses (she was just joking around) i don't see how she could have a crush on someone.. what do u think? Please help! Thanks!!!! :)
2007-08-16 03:53:59 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm posting this again cus most ppl think i only know her online... ive known her from school since the 7th grade... we are going into 10th now... she lives 10 minutes from me! Thanks!
2007-08-16 03:54:50 · update #1
I have firsthand experience with this. I liked my good guy friend, and I did things like that to him, and I finally broke down and told him that I liked him. Now we are married. haha. Good luck, I think she likes you. Talk to her about it!
2007-08-16 03:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
First off, you are young so don't be upset if this doesn't turn around the way you want it to. There will be many more relationships in your life!!
O.k. so whatever she is posting on myspace, forget about it. It's the internet, what she says to you is what is important! Who's to say she didn't have a friend on the side of her telling her what to put!! She is obviously young (could tell before you stated the fact), and she is saying that she doesn't want to be in the "lonely" croud anymore? Well, she is just that...lonely and nothing is wrong with that! Now, if you are lonely to...then you guys can hang out and keep each other company!
WORDS OF ADVICE:
Don't make someone a priority, when they are making you an option!!
If you like her that much, then tell her. If she knows you do and she hasn't acted on it, maybe she isn't ready! Now, don't let her keep you on the back burner!! Even if you guys don't work out I am sure you will be o.k.!! Think smart, don't wear your heart on your sleeve! Your young, and you will figure it out...and all the while I am sure you will learn a lesson for life!!
GOOD LUCK DUDE!!!
2007-08-16 04:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by lookitsjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K J is correct; we could merely speculate as to her state or frame of mind, being how none of us know anything about her personally.
If you've known her for three years then the bets are on you to get to know her even better. But B begins
with A. Meaning; you can't get to Point
B (knowing what she wants and thinks), without starting off at Point A
(having an actual conversation with her and asking her yourself).
Are you familiar with the phrase, "never send a boy to do a man's job"? This is your cue. You need to step up to the plate; be a man and do your job.
If she rejects you it's not the end of the world. You'll heal. There will be other
girls.
But if she accepts you then you would be kicking yourself in the butt for not
approaching her sooner. Good luck.
2007-08-16 04:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by sylvester m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have a crush on anybody, could be a guy she saw somewhere, another school, another day somewhere else. Doesn't take much.
And your comments about you are the only guy she has seen? How would you know that. Even if you lived in the same house you wouldn't know where she was all day everyday.
Unless you are a psycho stalker, if not then stop worrying. you cannot make someone like you. Just is is isn't gong to happen
2007-08-16 04:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what she means, your 15 or 16 years old, does it really matter - The problem is you should be spending more time on your studies & not worrying about her toying with your emotions - If she has not confronted you with her feelings by now, then she just isn't into you - Spend more time with Algebra then on MYSPACE - Stop beating around the bush like a lost puppy & come right out with it - you'll be happy you did - Don't be a sucker, girls can smell them a mile away - Before you know it, your paying for her highlights, pedicures, & manicures, and guess what she still wont be into you - Trust me - I had a lost puppy following me around for a time there when I was your age & I got my nails done, gas for my car, a ride everywhere I wanted to go & guess what he liked me & I just wasn't into him!! So there he was left with an empty wallet!! Do you want to wake up with an empty wallet?? No love?? And a love sick puppy attitude??? Go to school & learn!!!!Let her chase you..........Good Luck
2007-08-16 04:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lords of Stockton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you did say that you have been seeing her this summer. How does she act around you? Kinda flirtatious? Sounds like, if you are indeed the only guy, she likes you. Why don't you take her out, just you two, and see how things go. If you are the guy she's talking about, she'll be head over heals and hopefully all will go well. Good luck to you!
2007-08-16 04:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude-r u blind?? if her recent thing says like "maybe-no;-)-etc. etc. and the only guy she has seen over the summer is u-put 2 and 2 togethere!! duh her crush is u-either that or she's playn' u, like a joke or there's another guy u don't know about-and she's afraid 2 tell u because she thinks it may hurt u if she feels like u do care for her. casual about it and talk 2 her-like "so on ur survey u said "maybe" u have a crush?, well i was wondering if it was me, not trying 2 be nosey, if it is then that's cool, and well i was thinking u know who else could it be if you've only talked/seen me." be cool about it.
2007-08-16 04:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by dragonbabe08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead os asking people around what they think, find out on your own. If she has a crush on you, you will definitely be able to feel it if you make some steps forward. Start going out with her more often, show her you're interested too. Good luck!
2007-08-16 04:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Doolittle_212 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She just might interested and only way you're going to find out is to ask her out! Maybe there is something there but if one of you doesn't make the first move - you never know! Good luck!
2007-08-16 04:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by Janet H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you .. but may be afraid to say anything outright b/c of you guys are friends. Yes .. us girls worry about this as much as you guys.
If you're comfortable enough with her, ask her about it. If not, spend more time with her just the two of you and see what happens!
Good luck!
2007-08-16 04:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by rose1077 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's hard because she might like you or you're just her good friend that she puts her troubles on about being lonely. I think you should tell her how you feel and if she doesn't feel the same way she'll tell you.
2007-08-16 04:00:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋