I was with my boyfriend for 13 months he hurt me so much im only 22 and been hurt so bad so many times by this guy he is 27 it hurts so much ive never been in love before I dont think I will be able to get into another relationship again im scared of getting hurt
2007-08-16 03:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by skye l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be scared of getting hurt, ur not alone. Feel the pain. Cry to ur heart's content. After a week or 2 u will grow tired of being in pain and u will move on.
2007-08-16 03:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by 123mantobeat456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how recently you split, but if it was within a year, then naturally you will feel this way. It takes time. Know this, though: if he made you feel badly, then you did the right thing letting him go. Now just give yourself some time to heal. Keep yourself busy. Hang out with your friends. Participate in activities, clubs, or do some volunteer work. Get some exercise every day. Have some fun! And whatever you do, cut off contact with your ex, and don't return his calls or attempts to get back with you. It is time to move on. You give it some time and keep yourself busy, and I guarantee you that you'll not only get over your ex, but you'll find someone new and better! Good luck!
2007-08-16 10:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young. You have plenty of time to meet someone who is nice and will not hurt you. Just start going out with your friends and have fun. Don't worry about guys, concentrate on your career and hanging with your friends. You have the rest of your life to be tied down and in a relationship.
2007-08-16 10:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mary D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. Take a time out to regroup. Nobody has ever been so hurt so much that it forever dooms relationships with the opposite sex for the rest of their lives. Sooner or later, you will find a kinder & gentiler man who will take you into his fold and chase away your presenr angst.
2007-08-16 10:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes honey we never heal .we just go on with our life and try to do the right things.ive ben hurt in so many ways ,but i find it makes me stronger.i dont give of my heart so fast.
2007-08-16 11:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by sadeyes40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club. All wounds heal in time. You deserve better. Move on with your life.
2007-08-16 10:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋