Right this Kid at school called Tom had a lucky guess at who my girlfriend was and my girlfriend wanted are relationship kept secret because she's in Y7 and I'm in Y9 and she has a fear of the sge difference but she'd told one person so I told Sam a friend who I knew I could trust and he didn't tell anyone but I knew I couldn't trust Tom because last time I went out with Charley(my exgirlfriend now) he ended up having Charley dump me so I never told him if he was right or wrong but he still went up to Charley and told her I that I told everyone when I'd only told Sam and I've been angry at him ever since cos Charley doesn't want to go out with me at all now and I love her with all my heart.
Right now the dream: I dreamt I had killed Tom and I'd been given detention for a whole term which seemed a little light.
It didn't change how Charley felt about me in the dream but she did begin to understand how I felt in the dream.
What does this dream mean?
2007-08-16 03:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by Lily R 6 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Oh I have no intention of killing Tom because I know that won't win Charley back.
2007-08-16 03:31:26 · update #1
Sounds to me that you are very angry with Tom and you can't let that anger lie just yet. Maybe you should try to explain to Charley what had happened. Then just let it go, when the time comes she will be back in your arms. Seems to me that you must really have a thing for that girl. Just don't push her, let her come back to you in her own time. As for Tom...never trust in him again.
2007-08-16 07:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Behavin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ooooooohhhhhh dear. I have seen dreams like this before. My girlfriends brother had a dream like this about me, except I got away alive- just like in his dream. Spooky.
Dreams where you kill someone or of someone else's death tend to be a sort of rehearsal of an actual event. Almost every dream (about every 1 in 22) that I have seen or interpreted which has something to do with death has come true. I'm not saying you will actually kill him, but you express a subconscious desire to, just like with my dreams where I'm grown up and kill Stefan in a fight and win his family. I know it might not be the same as this dream you've been having, but we all channel negative feelings such as hate, and, as I said before, these feelings can normally only be expressed or released within dreams.
Though, could it be possible that Tom has feelings for Charley? If so, could these feelings be so strong that he doesn't care about his relationship (friend, best friend, etc...) with you?
In answer to your question about how Charley is driving you mad, simply get her into a private place where Tom, none of her friends and none of your friends can disturb you and explain to her about the situation.
My girlfriends brother, Travs (I'll use his nick-name), hated me when I started going out with his sister, but I sat him down while I was visiting her and explained to him how much I loved her. Now he's my best mate. If you do the same with her and explain the situation, I'm sure that she will forgive you, bonus- if you tell her how much you love her, then she should allow you to date her again.
2007-08-16 05:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by AG Bellamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave Tom out of this Corey. I bet, once you tell Charley how you really feel and what happened before,and get everything out in the open,this load will be lifted off your shoulders and you wont be so mad and angry.Try it!
2007-08-16 08:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here's my 2cents:
You feel the need to do sth negative towards Tom but nothing that will get you into too much trouble. And you want to do this in the hopes that Charley would atleast understand how YOU feel.
2007-08-16 03:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by suspended2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to Dreamcrowd:
To see your girlfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with her and how you feel about her.
To see a guy in your dream, denotes the masculine aspect of yourself - the side that is assertive, rational, aggressive, and/or competitive. If the guy is known to you, then the dream may reflect you feelings and concerns you have about him. If you are a woman and dream that you are in the arms of that guy, suggests that you are accepting and welcoming your stronger assertive personality . It may also highlight your desires to be in a relationship and your image of the ideal man. To see an old guy in your dream, represents wisdom or forgiveness. See also: Boy
To dream that you have a bowel movement, signifies that you are successfully getting rid of your old habits/ways and thinking patterns. It is usually analogous to the release of strong emotions, such as anger and anger. See Also: Constipation, Diarrhea
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2007-08-17 17:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything, it's just your subconscious mind reacting to and processing these events. You're a little angry at how events have turned out, annoyed at yourself and your friends .... it doesn't have any supernatural connotations at all, you're not going to kill anyone ... it's just a dream.
You'll get over your anger and move on and so will everyone else.
2007-08-18 13:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋